Love and sex are two different entities. you can love someone without having sex with him but to have a heavenly experience of sex you must love the person first. Love and sex go together and you just cannot seperate them. They are two sides of the same coin. the problem arises only due to basic attitude [or mindset] of the man and the woman. The man says "give me sex, I shall give you love", While the woman says "Give me love and I shall give you sex". No wonder the marriage does not go smooth. If the man is north pole, then the woman is South pole. Since society has made all the rules in marriage in favour of the man, the woman undergoes all kinds of harrasement, torture, or insults from the man. The man things it is his birthright to get sex, since the woman is his legal wife.
Love is the most important factor. love and affection is important as u can never have sex every minute.
Answered by
Shampa
, an ibibo Specialist,
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10:01 PM on July 04, 2008