Shubham, love does not grow on trial and error method as you have experiencing. You love a girl. She love your friend. After one year she told that she wants your love. What does it indicate? Is she failed or broke with that boy and come to you?
Friendship or love is not like that.
A friendship is a relation between two individuals (may be a boy and a girl or a man and a woman) with unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun. This is describes as the true meaning of friendship. With similar interests, mutual respect, care and concern, both share their feelings. That relation develops a strong attachment with each other. These general traits of a friendship come from knowing and understanding each other. Thereafter both get confidence on each other. The girl or woman feels secured with the boy/man. And that security produces trust on each other.
Trust is the vital factor of friendship which determines its longevity. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.
True friendship never expects any thing in return.
we should know the above factors before making friendship.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
6:53 AM on September 30, 2008
