well, Delayed ejaculation means that even though your sexual desire (libido) and erections are normal, you have difficulty reaching a climax (i.e. the point at which semen spurts out) when you are inside your partner. In a UK study of men aged 16–44, 5.3% said they had experienced difficulty in reaching orgasm for at least 1 month in the past year. The problem continues for more than 6 months in only 2.9%, so, like premature ejaculation, it can be a temporary problem (British Medical Journal 2003;327:426–7).
For many couples it is a source of pleasure, not a problem, because it allows prolonged love-making, but the woman may (mistakenly) assume that it means she is unattractive to her partner.
The UK Sexual Dysfunction Association receives many queries about it and has prepared a special fact sheet (see useful contacts). The association says that two categories of men commonly have the problem of delayed ejaculation: sex starters who are paralyzed with guilt or other strong emotions; and older men who have grown psychologically mistrustful of release or who have a need for greater physical stimulation now that age has made lovemaking less spontaneous and orgasm less compliant. Also, some prostate operations and some drugs, such as SSRI-type antidepressants (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors), can delay ejaculation. Therefore, if you are taking medication and delayed ejaculation is a new problem you should ask your doctor if the medication might be responsible. Alcohol can also have this effect.
Source: http://www.embarrassingproblem s.co.uk/ejacdelayed.htm
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