Premature Ejaculation is a psychological factor compounded with lesser-n lesser -experiences, control over body and mind.Some others may include of penis sizes and uncut or larger foreskin et al which is not true but a myth only. U hv more tendency to hv early ejaculation if ur foreskin is larger/thicker or tight ones ,sometime.During the excitement alone, i mean, once the skin comes out, u hv the tendency to ejaculate early as u stimulate faster ,before actual penetration,at times.In those cases, control over mind and body and experience counts. A tips or two from sexology or psychologist would be ideal. I dont agree that older people ,say after 40yrs or more, will hv that problems which is almost common in early life,specially un-married ones.But even in early life- those who r regualr,at least once or twice a day- do masturbate, i think they will not hv that probs barring few exceptions( Sexual male Dysfunction). One may read books on Art of Sex for healthy conjugal life.Sex is divine,pure,uncondition love, a form of communication,mutual trust,a must do exercise for mental,physical and psychological growth, performance,re-productions besides a symbol of manhood. A lot of foreplay alone before orgasm or penetration can enhance ur conjugal life. if u want to hv control over (or win her heart or vice versa) ur partner-satisfy her first and think for urself and gradually u both tend to finish the job same time and keep smiling forever. Good luck ( if need further ask separately,privately).

Answered by b.n. bora , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:24 AM on May 15, 2008

Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem in men. Alfred Kinsey, the famous American father of sexology, found during the string of studies conducted between 1948 and 1953 that three quarters of men ejaculate within the first two minutes of penetration in more than 50 percent of their sexual encounters. An estimated 30 percent of all men are unable to control their ejaculation in most sexual encounters. This makes premature ejaculation a huge problem for many men and couples. Actually, the problem with premature ejaculation is that it spoils all the fun for both partners. Nobody wants to put an end to a pleasurable activity too early.

Most of those suffering from premature ejaculation are younger men, who have less control over their bodies and less experience. Nearly every man has been unable to control himself at least once during his sex life and almost always during the first sexual encounter when lack of experience makes holding back difficult. However, severe cases of premature ejaculation do not go away on their own, but continue well into the adult years. The results of this weakness on the physical side of sex tend to spill over into the psychological side, undermining confidence and self esteem and triggering patterns of depression.

It’s perfectly clear that inexperience is one of the biggest causes of premature ejaculation, followed by a weak PC muscle and a faster than normal neurological response in the pelvic muscles. Well, inexperience can only be cured with more sex, which is something we heartily recommend to everybody, while the muscles located in the pelvic area can be trained as any other muscle in the body to stop acting on their own. The PC muscle stands for the pubococcygeus muscle. This muscle acts as floor to the entire pelvic area of the body, supporting from underneath the weight of organs. It also controls orgasm and prolonged exercising helps men achieve orgasm without ejaculating.

Answered by Smarty , an ibibo Master, at 12:17 PM on May 07, 2008

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Answered by siva kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:20 PM on April 24, 2008

Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem in men. Alfred Kinsey, the famous American father of sexology, found during the string of studies conducted between 1948 and 1953 that three quarters of men ejaculate within the first two minutes of penetration in more than 50 percent of their sexual encounters. An estimated 30 percent of all men are unable to control their ejaculation in most sexual encounters. This makes premature ejaculation a huge problem for many men and couples. Actually, the problem with premature ejaculation is that it spoils all the fun for both partners. Nobody wants to put an end to a pleasurable activity too early.

Most of those suffering from premature ejaculation are younger men, who have less control over their bodies and less experience. Nearly every man has been unable to control himself at least once during his sex life and almost always during the first sexual encounter when lack of experience makes holding back difficult. However, severe cases of premature ejaculation do not go away on their own, but continue well into the adult years. The results of this weakness on the physical side of sex tend to spill over into the psychological side, undermining confidence and self esteem and triggering patterns of depression.

It’s perfectly clear that inexperience is one of the biggest causes of premature ejaculation, followed by a weak PC muscle and a faster than normal neurological response in the pelvic muscles. Well, inexperience can only be cured with more sex, which is something we heartily recommend to everybody, while the muscles located in the pelvic area can be trained as any other muscle in the body to stop acting on their own. The PC muscle stands for the pubococcygeus muscle. This muscle acts as floor to the entire pelvic area of the body, supporting from underneath the weight of organs. It also controls orgasm and prolonged exercising helps men achieve orgasm without ejaculating.

Still, premature ejaculation can be prevented or treated by working out the PC muscle and bringing it under your control. When you have full control of this muscle, premature ejaculation is no longer a problem for you. Penis exercises, like Kegels or those featured in the Penis Health database, focus on ejaculation control at beginner, intermediate and advanced levels for people who are willing to rid themselves of this unfortunate condition once and for all. The trick is to have confidence in yourself and in your strength to make premature ejaculation a thing of the past.

Answered by Rekha , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:31 AM on April 23, 2008

amit one msut go for counselling and also one must make sure that by certain intake of medicines also one can get thru the way , reduce tensions and over feelings also

Answered by sanjay , an ibibo Guru, at 10:13 AM on April 23, 2008

you can take the counselling or some anxiolyics .there is nothing to worry about it

Answered by rajesh goyl , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:45 PM on April 22, 2008

1) donot think about the result ,just enjoy the act.
2)do regular exercise,yoga,meditation to have control over your mind and senses.
3)masterbate few hours before the act.this will prolong the period.

Answered by doctorluv , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:45 PM on April 22, 2008