its so said first of all sorry for that. there is two way how people take this situation firstly they cried tooo much & secondly they cant even cry at once. & u are such a strong person who take this situation very strongly.

Answered by Ajay Sharma , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:36 PM on January 25, 2008

It shows your stength

Answered by meenusai , an ibibo Specialist, at 8:29 PM on January 25, 2008

This state is quite common when you loose some one very close to you specially a sibling. I had the same kind of experience when I lost my younger brother.

Answered by Punjguj man , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:26 AM on January 25, 2008

I am not sure how old you are or how old your brother was when he passed. Not everybody cries when there is a death in the family no matter how close. People who had good relationships will miss them but cherish the good memories and don't feel the need to remember the sadness. There is nothing wrong if everything else is ok if you have other difficulties they may be related to ignoring the grief..see a psychologist if you feel something isn't right.

Answered by Saurabh , an ibibo Master, at 10:32 PM on January 24, 2008

No There is nothing wrong with you. People react to death in different ways and no one way is correct. The oriental people wear white and have a 2 or 3 day party. My pastor says to look at it like this, the dead person is no longer in pain and living miserably and what is on the other side is soooo much better than our wildest dreams. When my grama died my sister didn't cry for her and it caused strife in my family. It's not wrong not to cry, it's just how you deal with pain.

Answered by satya singh , an ibibo Master, at 10:32 PM on January 24, 2008

NO there's nothing wrong with you. Everyone grieves differently. Perhaps one day you'll find yourself remembering him and you may cry, but if not, don't worry. Just remember how much you loved him. And don't beat yourself up about it.
I'm sorry to hear about your brother.

Answered by Uttam , an ibibo Master, at 10:31 PM on January 24, 2008

There's nothing wrong with you.everyone reacts differently. I lost a neice 2 months ago.i cried for maybe 2 days and then after that I kind of went on...I also thought there was something wrong with me. You dont need to cry to mourn someone. Its best to remember them and laugh at the good times you guys had..remembering someone is also a way to mourn. So dont worry..your perfectly normal.and I am very sorry. My prayers go out to you and your family.

Answered by Romi , an ibibo Master, at 10:31 PM on January 24, 2008