Love marriage comes from youthful emotions.Arranged marriages come from experience,judgement of right or wrong,good or bad.Arranged marriages last long.Family herdity,ancestral wisdom and elders' blessings make such a marriage an ideal one.
There is a controversy in your question.When you ask "Should I go...." it means that you are already in love.If so,certainly you should honour your commitment failing which you will fall from your own eyes.The lady in question must have cherished a lot of dreams and ideas with you.You certainly should not leave her in a lurch.If that be the case go ahead and to hell with the world.If not, in my humble and experienced opinion arranged marriages are the best ones.God Bless you.
Answered by
Vijay Kayal
, an ibibo Master,
at
3:53 PM on May 13, 2008