Submissiveness can be maintained as not to hurt elders old age believes as long as its not interfering in personal growth and affecting children’s future. Submissiveness has many definitions, it does not means when you are not submissive you are imprudent. Be strong while putting forward your opinion and give right justification to prove it.

Answered by monika paul , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:20 PM on July 04, 2008

i am going to socite

Answered by ankur at 11:17 AM on July 03, 2008

It is your family matter, u should tackle it by love & good understanding woth your mother in law !

Answered by Gireesh , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:43 PM on July 02, 2008

dear.....u r mother-in-law is right....beacuse she has taken her decison according to her mind and mentality....she things in past....culture....modern generation forget our culture.......so u should...compromise with ur mother

Answered by Sicky Boora , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:08 PM on July 01, 2008

You be submissive for 1 week and on sunday explain her what are the bad effects of being submissive.

Speak a lot to your mother in law and she will deposit emotions in your husbands mind...

Answered by Healing , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:34 PM on July 01, 2008

diplomacy is the right here, all these sort of woman want only attention and one can give a little more and yes have to butter none like you what ever you say is true and so on, but not for ever but to a certain extent

Answered by sundari , an ibibo Specialist, at 7:50 AM on July 01, 2008

You can behave tactfully, pleasing the mother in law & husband too. Be kind & loving to her, she may change. If u try to be good & obedient in all matters u can, & remain firm & polite u can make her understand your character. u can politely refuse to do all that she says,& tell her ur opinions. Today's girls know how to tackle such situations, & most MIL's r friendly with the daughter in laws.

Answered by Tingtong , an ibibo Master, at 10:24 PM on June 30, 2008

Confussing...........???????
Sorry, can't say.......

Answered by Sanjay , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:51 PM on June 30, 2008