Marriage in hindu family is designed by our elders to ensure healthy human beings are born with out genetic defect, one of the main concern that can arise when marriage is repeatedly conducted between members of the same family, this was ensured in the past by restricting particular "gothras" (linage ) from getting married to each other, there are other reasons also, but we will not go through them now as the present issue to seek marriage between two individuals is the real issue,
Kindly consult your family guru for guidance in this matter, As it can affect the lives of the childern you both will bring into this society.

Answered by H.A , an ibibo Advisor, at 9:15 PM on April 28, 2009

Avoid this.

Answered by Jeevan Mitta , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:05 PM on April 28, 2009

First take your time to give love or mutual attraction whatsoever to mature . Than think of marriage .It seems that your family and society are not going to allow you to continue this relationship in broad daylight . Can you lead a life remaining aloof from parents and society . Will she be able to do so . Are you self dependant ? This kind of relationship needs a lots of guts to face society . You may turn unhappy in course of time when you will see that your families are not accepting you .

Answered by Sulochana , an ibibo Master, at 8:23 AM on April 28, 2009

there is no harm to love any one and it is always good to marry whom do you love but thought once that she never tie rakhi in your hand if she do so maybe in childhood and you have photographs of this moment what will you tell your children what will happen if they want to do same

Answered by pooja singh , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:40 PM on April 27, 2009