you just cannot if you prefer arrange marriage. Of course yes, if you choose to marry someone you love like a college friend whose everything you know before marriage. But sadly love marriage is not that successful in india. As far as arrange marriage is concerned which is the most successful one one will have to think one is right. Rather speaking in other words what ever yoy get he or she is right or suitable. bas soch lo yahi sahi or try to make one sahi. that's why it is successful as everyone think on that line.

the time given to know each other in arrange marriage is negligible and one cannot judge when everyone is upto show during the preliminary talks between the bride and groom. Happy marriage life is that to tolerate and one's toleration is the cement that bonds the bond of marriage.

thanks

Answered by Sudama , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:10 PM on May 01, 2008

be in friendship before marriage.know him well.then marry.there is no way out afterwards except compramising.

Answered by sanjay , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:02 PM on April 18, 2008

She has to study and then take the decision.

Answered by mkarprama , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:07 PM on April 17, 2008

that's why parents take care for that they don't choose the boy as well as their family members, their reputations, and their business, or income sources .where their daughter will going to spent her whole life, but girl who is in love choose only boyfriend, his bike, his style, and handsomeness, they don't want to know what is his family background,how do they live ,how much he earn, these thing girls must know and make ensure to get married with no doubt. am i right. try these points before you take any decession .

Answered by atul , an ibibo Specialist, at 12:44 AM on April 17, 2008

Oh, Its just a tough question. See Tanu, If its Love marraige than both Boy & girls are very aware of themselves but if its arrange marraige than its just difficult to indicate right boy/right girls. that'swhy we Indians have a tradition of matching of Kundlis.

Answered by Dhiren , an ibibo Advisor, at 6:07 PM on April 16, 2008

You can make him the match by your faith and determination

Answered by Nisar Ahmed , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:11 PM on April 16, 2008

what is the defination of right in your thinking check first according to that you check that person. life may kai magic nahi hota movies ki taraha. ask him open ended question discuss with him and get the solution. dont be affraid if he tell you same facts. live for today not in your imagination.

Answered by harry potter , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:00 PM on April 16, 2008