Well Jasmeen ! I had already told you that donot be too serious about this. Donot take any wrong decision in haste. Your parents are first who had gave birth to you and look after you till now. Donot ever think to deceive them.
That boy friend is just your infatuation. It happens with every body who falls in love first time. Then the lover can't see anything except that lover. because he/she are blind in love. Just try to enquire about that boy and his family, where he lives, how is his mother. Because in Sasural Sajjan se jyada Mother-in-law ke sath time bitana parta hain.
I donot want to hurt your feelings but it is also true Love marriages are not mostly successful !
You are just 19 years. Just openly tell to your about this affair to your parents. It will help you a lot. I think the solution will come. Donot think abou the negative response of your parents. Just tell them that you love that boy and can enquire about that boy and his family.
Just get rid of pressure and tell to your parents and put the whole pressure and decision to your parents. Lets see what they say.
And listen to me carefully. Please do not take any wrong decision in haste. You have long life to live this colourful world.
Once again i say to you just relax !
Believe in Waheguru !
Answered by
satinder
, an ibibo Advisor,
at
7:22 PM on October 13, 2008
