with this media & channels & glamour or parameters of fun & desires hv changed. earlier peopel use to b bz and happy within family & just passing time with them.bcaz they were nt shown what they dont hv. todau we r hoke up to tv & c what world is doing & we r not, but what we dnt c is our family surrounding & responsibilities & our people happiness. this frustrates us. for us world which we dnt hv is our desire..but wat we hv is worthless. monotonous do happens but u hv to overcome it by seeking fun & smaller achievements. running away from ur responsibilities is weakness & part of western civilisation, we the indian hv roots of family &' living for others' from thousands of years. dont try to run away try to find solutions, it may take time..but life does nt end ,,u can try to b actress at 21 by fighting & making ur family unhappy, or at 24 with ur family consent & willingness..options r with us. one thing needs to b understood..human wants r endless but means to satisfy them r less..u hv to check on ur priorities. its the selection which makes a man. not everyone gets everything.
check ur priority, try to find possible solution, proper ways out, try to take advice from serious & sincere people, ur parents first if hey r experience, or tl counselling from people who r experienced.

Answered by AKSHAT , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:03 PM on April 26, 2008

I think you are stressed out with your work and personal responsibilities,just take off a leave from your office work and do have a break,go out for a tour with your family;play with your kids;chat with your friends.It's this kind of activities that would keep your mind free from the stresses.Always involve in activities which you are interested in doing so that you involve yourself and get the better out of yourself and fair better.

Answered by sanjay kumar , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:02 PM on April 22, 2008

hi sis,
i totally understand what you are going through and i know what you need is not anyone to understand but a solution. I personally have gone through this very state, more than once. I totally agree to the posting by sister tavleen.
there is nothing much i can do but pray. and that i ll.
take care sis.

Answered by Sony Peter , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:51 AM on April 18, 2008

Hi Mahima,
the real fun of life is not in running away from the thing but to face them and take then the way they come, thats what our life worth it. so try it this way.

Answered by Yatan , an ibibo Advisor, at 7:43 AM on April 17, 2008

simple chill and relax take a break from all your responsibilites for sometime......and sweet heart everything in the mind.....the way you think the same way you feel.......so think positive....everyone have problems and tensions...however don't take tensions......Chillout baby.

Answered by Jeedith , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:26 PM on April 15, 2008

Take a break from your routine life.
The excuse that you cannot leave your job or your life is waste as Life is prestigious to be enjoyed.
Where there is will there is a way. Take a break and giving lame excuses will only spoil your life.

Answered by janardhanan , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:55 PM on April 11, 2008

everyone has a monotonous life. no one can switch jobs, places, partners, likes, dislikes, desires etc on a whim. we r what we r. monotony is inevitable. wht u can do is, first, accept it as a fact. second, constantly reinvent urself. whatever gets u down, try and change it. if u cant change it totally, modify it suitably. understand the difference between the things that u can change and the ones u cant. that shud make it easier. even mukesh ambani has a monotonous life. just like the beggar who sits on the pavement in front of his house. get rid of the monotony-phobia.......

Answered by Dannyboy , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:39 PM on April 02, 2008

Agreed that it is a real big trouble. However the solution is not outside but within. When you know that You can't change the world, just change yourself. Think what is it that you are really missing. Once you are clear about what you need, there will always be some means to get there. Hope you will find some respite in being more closer to the nature. I mean - wake up early, do some jog, watch the rising Sun, breath-in more fresh air, try to stop thinking about those so-called monotonous things in life, look for the beautiful things around, try and help others and above all Stop hating your life! I'm sure you would have better and brighter days ahead. Wish you all happiness in life!

Answered by Dream Weaver , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:05 PM on March 30, 2008

mahima its called quarter life crisis u feel that u r all alone in dis world but its not like that u knw evrybdy in dis world has problems but the best way is to let the problem cms, keep a smile on ur face & move on in ur life tell u 1 thing smtimes ago i felt the same way but 2day i knw im not alone i hv friends & family to enjoy my life

Answered by sahil , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:45 PM on March 30, 2008