look
life is big and full of uncertanities , u never know what is going to happen wid u the next movement. so, my frnd just beleive in LET GOING . accept the reality of your life and face it, if u'll run it'll run behind u. so, stop urself and face whatever comes the way.
just let life go and u'll feel better
all the best

Answered by The Best , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:47 PM on October 27, 2008

Whatever happens or does not happen in your life only you are responsible for it .If you think straight and honestly you will know you allowed that to happen.And this tension that you are in comes not from whatever happened but from your story of what happened.Hard to believe but we cook stories about incidents and begin to think that the stories are real and authentic.Why do we do this? For our benefit. We can use these stories as an excuse for many things so that we do not have to take responsibilities.
Looking at the larger picture of life, this is a small insignificant dot.Gather yourself. Get up. And get on with life.There is so much life wants to give us.Only we should be willing to take it. Why don't you see the game in a an empowering context that life taught you a lesson on how not to be exploited or something like that.

Answered by Girish Shah , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:44 PM on October 25, 2008

Bash on regardless ! This what we believein my profession ..Indian Army. Don loose heart , all incidents make us stronger. The girl played game with you , no problem , there are enough characterless girls available like her who need matching reply . Have faith in good times and find a new girl btter then her. Believe me OUT OF SIGHT IS OUT OF MIND , she will make u forget ur old love. Reply this ruthless girl, not worth ur feelings, like a ruthless hockey player by smashing the ball right in the goal..ur new sweet girl freind . Iam sure she exists somehwhere.Best wishes

Answered by R H , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:54 PM on October 15, 2008

I feel for you. But think deeply my dear and analyze first your own fault. Don't be angry if you are really willing to get rid of this problem. So, analyze and meditate to rejuvenate your mind with the thought that no one is to be blamed and through your that fault the game was played and you yourself had given that opportunity.
As soon as you realise this you relax and suggest yourself that from now onwards no mistakes will be done by you, no sight, no word, nothing will be able to lure you to divert you from the path of just and right. Hear to your conscience always while you go to do anything. Conscience is the best friend, it will never deceive you if you are pure and rightful in your thoughts.

Answered by Sujit Kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:50 AM on October 09, 2008

Forget the girl and move on in life... Life has much more to offer...

Take a social cause like poverty allevation... education to poor... focus on what you can do... There are a lot of people in the world who need help from educated people like you... Help them... There are a lot of NGOs' working for these causes... Join them and work...U can do a google search for "poverty"...

Answered by Gopalakrishn , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:35 PM on October 07, 2008

U hav to forget all the things n be mature .........u may take that game as a life experience .U hav to control urself,u hav to work as ur potential ,u hav to maintain a goal in ur life .U hav to increase ur personality so that the girl who takes boys as a game get abashed................
best of luck for ur new life.

Answered by manas singh , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:50 PM on October 05, 2008

well, i have been thru almost the same situation and then i took almost the same revenge with the help of my cousins... but tell u the truth today i feel that my revenge was not worth it.. my friend used to say that the one who does bad to u also gets the same.. it may be not today, tomorrow or but much later... still the person finally learns it. many people in the world play bad games with others and try to prove something but they don't realize what precious gift they lose until the time when they themselves are victim of some bad game. Chill out! dnt keep urself fixed to that girl, there are other problems in life one has to face and excel. one day or the other u have to move on then y not now? life is short so live it to the max... take care

Answered by gauri , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:34 AM on October 02, 2008

boss... she played a game on you is your version of the story. If you ask her, she may be telling the same to her friends that you did not live up to her expectations.

In love noone is right and noone is wrong. Either it works out or simply it doesnt. Unfortunately in your case it hasnt worked out so just forget it and keep yourself involved in other things, some other gorl will just be ideal... all the best :-)

Answered by Mehul Shroff , an ibibo Specialist, at 10:54 AM on October 02, 2008

just forget what happened before. start your new life and new days

Answered by nihar swain at 8:54 PM on October 01, 2008

Before answering your question a joke for you :

Two men sitting in bar. One man said to other "I have hell lot of family problems."

The other one responded " i tell you mine. I married a widow with a daughter. My father married my daughter, so my father become my son-in-law, my daughter become my mother, my wife become my grandmother. More problems occurred when I had a son. My son is my mother's brother & thus my uncle. Situation turned worse when my father had a son. Now my father's son, i.e my brother, is my grandson. Ultimately I have become my own grand son & grandfather.

And you say you have family problem."

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This message was sent by my friend on a morning, when I told him about my career confusions in night before.

Majid life shows us a lot to cry on & gives a lot to get that happy smile.

don't waste on some one. Dude let me tell you its not the girl responsible for you bad mood. Its you & you only who can decide how you feel.



Now as we say old-is-gold, do one thing. Go to your terrace and look as far as possible.
Then think of her & the game she played. Now biggest thing.


Take five deep breaths, & them scream scream scream scream scream.......A BIG ONE.
[In my case I used it on a national highway. And repeatedly use it.......]
;)


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“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”

Jalal ad-Din Rumi quotes (Persian Poet and Mystic, 1207-1273) +Taken from http://thinkexist.com

Answered by Dk Creatto , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:30 PM on October 01, 2008