Don't be tit for tat because that does'nt work, let he/she may hate u but u always follow Gandhigiri it realy works.

Answered by Pallavi , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:09 PM on April 18, 2008

nothing can sort out the issues better than sitting together and discussing openly abt the issue, however to do that you should make him feel comfortable so that when you talk to him he should listen and acknowledge.....as of now juz give him time.........show him that you love him and care for him..........once he is cool talk to him

Answered by ASMA , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:20 AM on April 19, 2008

Like Pallavi said, don't resort to violence, Inform your problem to your elders, I had the same problem when I was in LKG. My mom solved my problem as soon as she came to know about it. Talk to him cooly be4 informing ur elders and ask why he is soo, If this doesn'tbare results, Go to your elders

Answered by Sachin , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:40 AM on April 19, 2008

First, you have to find out the reason for aggressiveness of your cousin towards you only. I think boycotting him may not give right solution. However, whoever gives continuous problem, we have to show our love towards them. This is long time process. In due course, that troubling nature people will not give trouble to us . Becouse LOVE IS HIGHEST POWER IN THE WORLD. try it, For eg: If some poison is in a tumpler, If you pour milke continuously, what will be the result. Heatedness is creation of the individual, but LOVE IS GOD ENDLESS, IT IS NATURE, IT IS LIKE AMUTHASURABY. Love wont be vanished from this world, you can take love from this world as much as possible.don't loose your heart because this is the right way of living.

Answered by laksh man , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:44 AM on April 19, 2008

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From what I guess
1. simply ignore him when he approaches you aggressively.
2. Avoid being with him and go out if possible.
3. Find out the reason for his aggressiveness and try to understand and explain to him about his behaviour and ask him to get rid of the situation.
4.Tell him point blank that you do not like him.
5.if all this fails report to eleders.
As some times the aggresssiveness may be for your good of protecting from the outer world.

Answered by janardhanan , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:56 PM on April 19, 2008

Try to avoid any kind of interaction with your cousine as it will ultimately end in a fight. Ignore him.Dont be in his company.

Answered by loony , an ibibo Advisor, at 7:37 PM on April 19, 2008

listen dear he is ur cousin n if he's geting aggresive den there must b some reason 4 it as nothing happens widout reason. frm my side i advice u 2 get close 2 ur cousin if u will show love n sympathy 4 him den it's 4sure dat he will share his problems n tentions wid u n if he does so d problem is half solved.u must ignore his bad behaviour n should b concerned of his griefs n tentions. coz always remember dat we can only b rude to the person we love.since u r his bro he always looks forward 2 a frndly support frm ur side, n i m sure if u wil provide him wid ur support n love he will surely b a changed guy. ALL D BEST 2u frm my side..!!

Answered by ananya singh , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:49 PM on April 19, 2008

hi! don't take it up so seriously,because in a family all these things could happen.don't hesitate to mingle with him in the future.You have got two options over this issue either you must imply to him what was he doing with you as politely as possible,if it imply him the other way round then you are involving yourself in a mess.this could further rift your relationship with him.the other option you have got his you convey this to his parents so that he could be taught how to behave friendly with others.But keep talking and have touch with him because if a rift occurs you could find no one to help you out in the future.

Answered by sanjay kumar , an ibibo Advisor, at 9:55 PM on April 19, 2008

as you say your cousin behaviour is very bad then try to avoid him slowly and dont give him any response just start ignoring him and if he do more then tell him that u avoid him and again he does the same then tell him that u will report to ur elders if again it continues just report to elders ok

Answered by samad mohd , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:49 PM on April 19, 2008

Hi,
just advice him you cannot behave like JUGLEE people. if he still continue then call him always JUNGLEE!!!!

Answered by Anant Vansia at 9:58 AM on April 20, 2008