i dont know why i started hating mysel without any reason and with lots of reasons my problem is confusion iam confused with my life.  

read about ennui.
you may need a psychiatrist's help

Answered by at 7:19 PM on July 16, 2008

Dear first cheer for me and listn all world like love and attentions but it needs the personalty, so try to make grow up your personalty and for that watch up your envoirnment and caught the all good and liking hobby, fation, intellegence, and also try to understand all reqirments of your circal persons and satisfy all. Leave the think that you are the only one person in world who is not essantial for itself, because in my view you may have a different think from any one and that is hidden, so please try to pull out that in a good maner. With my best wishes toward you for your best future.

Answered by Ramakant at 9:04 PM on July 11, 2008

Dear Padma….Don’t worry this is quite natural (I mean hating self..) & as u know it normally occurs when somebody is confused in life…you are alone in this world who is suffering from this agony…It may happen to anybody who has not been precise about his goals in life & has not charted his course of action to achieve what he wants from life…….It’s good that you have realized it….In this situation what my suggestion wud be is described below….

Identify your area of Interest…
Set your goal…
Collect information about your destination & the way to reach there…
Identify the course of action required on your part….
Be honest with you & your responsibilities in this regard…
I m sure you will be able to reach there….

Once again this phase is quite common so don’t panic…even once I was in the same position… I was not serious about studies…was not able to secure a reputed Percentage in my 12th standard exams…Infact no college was ready to give me the admission in B.com (P) course even…at that time I got frustrated so much so as to think about suicide even but fortunately I on my own instance learned this lesson & follow the above path….I pledged with me to achieve the highest qualification in commerce….I worked really hard…used to study around 18-20 hrs a day for months & finally all this culminated into my becoming a Chartered accountant…(the highest degree in the field of commerce & accountancy…)…

Kindly don’t feel that I am writing all that stuff for being popular but its just to make u belive that you are not the alone caught in this kind of problem…..

Answered by Vicky Rana at 12:30 PM on July 08, 2008

u r hating urself may b due to things nt happening good to u lately or being in the dumps.be brave.seek counselling if u r depressed.or else change ur attitude.

Answered by pia at 10:16 PM on July 07, 2008

Hi! Padmasri, develop ur hobbies try for ur own recognisation .Grow up ur confidence.Do some yoga or pranayam.Belive me u r the best .

Answered by Charusila at 9:32 PM on July 05, 2008

Check Vaastu of your home and workplace.
talk to some feng shui expert
break your head and ask yourself what is going wrong

Answered by Rajmohan lal at 9:29 PM on July 05, 2008

dont be depressed. u know in this universe every one has its own importance. first this i want to say if u are useless why God did create u?
if u r in this world this means u have something God wants u to do.
but question is what God want u to do?
this is the question which make u confuse?
simple answer is dont wait for the opportunity to come rather create opportunity for u and start doing whatever u like to do without thinking that u will fail.
thought of fail is more dangerous than being fail i assure u that u can do whatever u like, if someone does it in one time u can make3 or 4 efforts to do that work but u can do it . and slowly slowly u will get confidence and u will be a completely change person
i wish i could get more history about u so that i can be of any help

Answered by Syed Jamal at 6:43 PM on July 05, 2008

It happens with everyone in life.But this is not the solution for your problems.It will exagrate it .You need to build up self confidence,and find out the reason of your hatred.And solve them .Complete your work on time,make your surroundings and people around you happy and satisfied,soon you will be cooped out from this problem.And there is only 1 life so enjoy it to fullest..Try to spend time with your family,freak out with friends once in a week.You will see the changes within few days.

Answered by Shikha Tomer at 4:28 PM on July 05, 2008