dear khushi....be thankful to god for things u have rather than cry for the things you dont...u r fortunate that u r physically fit thats the biggest gift u have...try to c others who are more unfortunate and help them...v always think tat y good things always happen to others but v forget that v r also others for some more unfortunate ppl.............thanks

Answered by kinshuk , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:56 AM on May 09, 2008

Hi khushi, It's a human nature not to be satisfied with what she has. To overcome this problem there are only two methods - one is to accept what is given to us (easier one) other method is to always keep trying relentlessly for her aspirations.In both the methods there is no reason to be unhappy.......I always like people who adopt second method because this is how human being has evolved over the years by trying . So keep trying .. n always be honest wid urself ....beleive me u''ll never be depressed!! n btw u have such a nice name "Khushi" so be khush and spread khushi around urself.
Do give me ur feedback if all this above things could help u.

Answered by Vijay , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:45 PM on May 08, 2008

think positive for all ,in world no one is bad only ur expactation toward them is high

Answered by kush k , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:34 PM on May 05, 2008

Do nt knw wh khushi is.But bring sme khushi in life by becoming optimistic.

Answered by pia , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:23 PM on May 01, 2008

for this always you should make those friends who live happy or enjoy in life........... or achchi movies dekha karo... family ke saath time pass karo........ dusro ko khushi do or khushi get karo.. it is very simple to come out from upset ness......... or apni dictionary me se confusing word ko nikal bahar pheko......

Answered by sunita , an ibibo Advisor, at 5:14 PM on April 27, 2008

may b :
1) u need lot of thngs
2)u need everythng to b right & perfect
3) u r influence by wat others hv..& wat u dnt hv
4) u like jumping quick in life.
5)u r finding sumthng which u dnt knw...

solutions can b..take one thng at atime..tr to find happiness in small things of life, be confident of wat u hv, remember family is the real happness, world is not perfect, no one life is perfect, fix smaller targets for urself & develop a dream & passion in ur life for sumthing & plan & work for it.

these thing will make ur life organized, meaningful & worhwhile, u wll b bz & nt hv time to think other rubbishes...when u think a lot u dnt work , when u dnt work..u think a lot & all rubbish , this is a vecious circle.

Answered by AKSHAT , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:53 PM on April 26, 2008

hi khushi, pls.dont forget time is a big healer.just beleive in yourslf n hv faith in god. also try to b with possitive.take care.u can b my friend if u want.

Answered by misha misha at 2:14 PM on April 24, 2008

Dear Khushi,


From your question I understand you as a very sensitive and overemotional person,
too much attached to your child hood and parents.

you had grown up.
It is the law of nature you need to detach from the past.

you are a normal human being who should do right and wrong. You are too right ? Am I right? that is the root of all these illusions.

Be what you want rather than being in the good books of certain old philosophies. i am not asking you to go bad.

Do one thing, visit http://www.noogenesis.com/pine apple/Taoist_Farmer.html

an d please do get back to me.

who are to decide what ever is happening is good or bad?
do have a broad and wider perception.

At your age , with your charm and personality you must be a bit more childish and naughty.

You have an overly matured attitude.

excuse for the harsh words. My intention is to correct you.

search and read all stories of farmer's horse.

Wish you all the best.

Hope to receive a relieving mail from you.


progajitkumar@gmail. com




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Ajit Nair

Answered by AJIT NAIR , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:20 PM on April 22, 2008

baby jitna milley usmain hi khush rahooo.. dont be so upset khushi.. always think positive baba.. tenshen nahi leney ka.. when you need more and you can,t get much.. as you desire.. only then you become confusing and tense.. so take it easy khushi.. just like your name.. when you satiesfied to your effert and the result you getting.. you will be fresh and happy all the time.. so just chill and try to be happy all the time.. you will see in a weekes time your thinking has change your style of living..

Answered by jak jil , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:30 PM on April 22, 2008

Hi Khusi! Your question. seems that u are very mass pessimistic girl. Whatever you get, you expect that it could be better than what it is now. So try to compare yourself with your narrow level, doing this you will find that you are getting more than what they get. It will help you to make yourself happy. There are many people wants a reason to smile at least once a day but they could not, you are lucky that you are getting something to randomized your life. So cheer the life and enjoy from every phase of life.

Answered by Ashok , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:41 PM on April 21, 2008