Dear Padma….Don’t worry this is quite natural (I mean hating self..) & as u know it normally occurs when somebody is confused in life…you are alone in this world who is suffering from this agony…It may happen to anybody who has not been precise about his goals in life & has not charted his course of action to achieve what he wants from life…….It’s good that you have realized it….In this situation what my suggestion wud be is described below….
Identify your area of Interest…
Set your goal…
Collect information about your destination & the way to reach there…
Identify the course of action required on your part….
Be honest with you & your responsibilities in this regard…
I m sure you will be able to reach there….
Once again this phase is quite common so don’t panic…even once I was in the same position… I was not serious about studies…was not able to secure a reputed Percentage in my 12th standard exams…Infact no college was ready to give me the admission in B.com (P) course even…at that time I got frustrated so much so as to think about suicide even but fortunately I on my own instance learned this lesson & follow the above path….I pledged with me to achieve the highest qualification in commerce….I worked really hard…used to study around 18-20 hrs a day for months & finally all this culminated into my becoming a Chartered accountant…(the highest degree in the field of commerce & accountancy…)…
Kindly don’t feel that I am writing all that stuff for being popular but its just to make u belive that you are not the alone caught in this kind of problem…..
Answered by
Vicky Rana
, an ibibo Citizen,
at
12:30 PM on July 08, 2008
