Maaphi jaab takatwar kaare toh woh sobhaniye hota hai. Paar Kamjor maaph kaare toh woh bewakufi kahlati hai. Aaage aap jayada samjhdar honge.

Answered by bhikubhai , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:37 PM on November 08, 2009

pahle to aap ek baat batayiye rape karne ki koshish ki ya rape kiya, hua kya hai, ha ye sahi hai ki rape ka gunah maaf karne layak nahi hai chahe woh kisi ne bhi kiya ho, aadmi ghar ka ho ya bahar ka. aise logo saza jaroor milni chahiye jisse or logo ko bhi sabak mil sake. or koi bhi dussara himmat nahi kar sake . ghar ke kisi person ne aisa karne ki koshish ki or aapne ghar main kisi to bataya ya nahi.

Answered by Atul , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:45 PM on November 05, 2009

aise (rape) mamlon mein mafi ........... kabhie nahin
gharwalon ko pehle batao....
aur jo action lena hai woh karo

Answered by Lakshmi R , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:49 PM on November 05, 2009

it depends on has age and conditions that why it occured. We have to see what is his position as per relatives. Suppose he is damad, we should not allow him to enter our house from next time. If daughter wants to leave him and stay here. we can support to her demand. We may take statement in written duly signed by him regarding hraised unwanted situation. This will help in court also. He will be unable to make any presure on us.

Answered by bkb272 , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:45 PM on November 05, 2009

first complain police, if u donot want to complain police, than tell your parents, and u and your family have cut all relation with this person

Answered by sunil patel , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:17 PM on November 05, 2009

mushkan ji namaste

ghar k kisi person ne rape karne ki koshish kari usko maaf bhi nahi karo aur usko panish karo ghar k logo k beech mein.kyun ki bahar jane sey ghar ki chavi karaab hogi.usko baatoan sey maaro ,jalil karo ,itna ki jab tak wo maafi na maange aur apni galti ka ehsaas na karey.
phir usko maaf karo aur maaf karney k baad usko is tarah treat karo ki usko lagey ki humari value nahi rahi.aur ek din wo khud apni galti ka ehsaas karega aur khoob royega.
phir wo maafi bhi maangeyga.

thks & regd
ajmal

Answered by ajmal FAROGH , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:50 PM on November 05, 2009

actually agar kisi se galti ho gayee ho to use 1 bar to maf karna chahiye,according to mine,
& u can do as u think better,
but plz ignore at 1st time plz

Answered by Mahesh Gaur , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:47 PM on November 05, 2009

dekho muskaan, first change use maaf kardo agar wo apne kiye par sharminda hai too otherwise tum jaanti ho uske saath kya karna chahiye,
agar use galti ka aahsaas hai to use chhod do because agar tum kuch action logi too pura ghar barbaad ho sakta hai apka ghar toot sakta hai, kabhi kabhi hame apne ko bachana padta hai na chahte huye bhi

Answered by Krishan Kuma , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:30 PM on November 05, 2009

Answered by Rahat Farqan at 12:30 PM on November 05, 2009 via Live Chat

rape is an act which one performs only when it has reached the limits of control. App bhale use police complaint na kare lekin apne baaki ghar waalon ko confidence me le le taaki aage se kabhi aisa koi chance na rahe. Jisne rape jaisa step uthaya hai it means uske dimaag main aapke liye aisi feelings hain. Kahin na kahin aur kabhi na kabhi na kabhi woh unhe phir kisi aur roop main nikal sakta hai. Temporarily woh bahut royega, maafi mangega, emotional black mail karega.. lekin human ke dimaag ki koi guarantee nahi hoti. Kab phir se usee dimaag main kya aa jaaye. you should be very carefull...

Answered by anmol.rana , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:29 PM on November 05, 2009