its not about you allowing your son to watch these channels, as these things are so commonly and frequently showed that you just cannot control...how much can you monitor what he watches? there is a limit to everything, right? you cannot be with him all the time seeing what he does and what he watches on TV. the best way would be sit with him and explain that these things are only ethical after a certain age...we do not and should not copy whatever is shown in the idiot box!..and trust your teenager, and let him know that..that you have faith in him, this is the time when you have to become his friend rather than being a parent, and also let him know that he can come to you and ask you whatver pops up in his mind.thats the only solution.

Answered by gunjan , an ibibo Specialist, at 7:13 PM on January 08, 2008

IT causes perversions. Hope people read this question and understand the harm caused. Surely, i wouldn't want this to happen at my house.Children watch soft porn accidentally and become addicts. No point saying- u choose what is good for u. What will kids do when this is thrust upon them?

Answered by wri ter , an ibibo Master, at 10:26 PM on January 08, 2008

its been happening around you.how long and how best you can prevent his/her getting exposed to realities of life.Better still he comes to know/she comes to understand what life is all about,rather than getting from secondhand sources.Why are we ashamed to accept that which is natural.Why do we think that its perversion.If we have the confidence to explain to our offsprings boldly,we can avoid the pit falls the west has faced on this issue.Its all about adapting oneself
No use simply hoping ,I have blocked all those smooching and other activity channels.Its all for the better if one is open and confident gains the confidence and brings the children in right way.Most of the time trying to be secretive is the reason why we face so much problem.Why not learn a lesson,from the experience of the west,when we copy and emulate so much of their ways

Answered by iyer56 , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:25 PM on January 08, 2008

DEAR SANVI,
TEENAGERS NOWADAYS ARE TO SMART ,THEY ARE AWARE OF EACH N EVERYTHING AROUND THEM.IF U STOP THEM FROM DOING SUCH THINGS THEY WILL SEE IT DELIBRATELY TO FIND OUT WHAT IS SO SPECIAL IN THAT.THEY SHOULD BE ALLOWED BCOZ IF U DONT ,THEY WOULD HIDE N WATCH BUT THEY SHOULD BE EXPLAINED THAT THERE IS A CERTAIN AGE FOR EVERYTHING. DEFINATELY TOO MUCH EXPOSURE IS BAD.

Answered by meaning , an ibibo Specialist, at 2:10 PM on January 09, 2008