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MY COUSIN IS GOIN TO GET MARRIED NEXT MONTH BUT SHE IS WORRIED ABT HER 1st NIGHT. PLS ADVICE .

Asked in Counselling at 8:25 AM on May 26, 2008

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I dont have enough experience to answer it.. but still I'd like to suggest a few things...
1.>> If ur cousin n her 2-b-hubby know each other.. then ur cousin may ask him out for a date to a late night movie n a dinner or sumthing.. so that the night may end for them at 2 am or so... this way she can come to know what kind of guy he is.. when all alone with only her...
2.>> If they dont know each other.. u set-up a date for them...
3.>> SEX used to be an integrated part of the first night years back.. but now-a-days.. since each n every guy/gal is well educated.. SEX is no more a must on the first night... And I guess.. what ur cousin's fear is about loosing her viginity... so... she may ask him to take it as slow as possible...
4.>> As far as I can think of that guy.. then he must understand ur cousin very well... and not force any such activity on her till she is comfortable... b it 1st night or 10th... after all a MAN MUST respect WOMEN... even his WIFE...
5.>> She must also talk to her parents.. i mean her mum... she would b a great guide...
6.>> To the top of it.... u cant teach everything... few thnings come by experience... I mean.. u may learn to ride a bicycle.. but u cant learn to fall off it... so... let ur cousin enjoy her 1st night...

I'd like to say one more thing... but not here... this may nt b the ideal place to discuss such topics.. u may mail me at suyash.khandwe@yahoo.com... n then i'll mail u back.. that is only if u want to...

LASTLY.... Be a close support to ur cousin if she needs u... and LET HER LEARN EVERYTHING BY EXPERIENCE.....

Wish her a VERY HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.....

and an EVERY MEMORABLE 1st NIGHT too... ;-)

take care....

Answered by Suyash , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:46 PM on May 27, 2008

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hi tell ur cousine that not to worry just kiss once in bed . give huge kiss and the othr thing will go ahead on its own

Answered by paul kota , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:58 PM on May 29, 2008

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There is no need to panic about first night Fact of life is that majority of men and women have had sex before marriage So man may not be so desperate to force bride into sex aginst her desire if she honestly tells her that she needs some time to gradually enter and enjoy physical relationship > She can instead suggest that talk about each other and get to know Side by side they can enjoy some lntimacy so that bridegroom is not frustrated She can charm him with loving talk and he will agree not to insist on sex on the first night .Neither refuse intimacy not let him force you

Answered by sandy88 , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:27 AM on May 29, 2008

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i think her husband gave instraction her on the bed so donot warryyyyyyyy

Answered by Gopal Rana at 11:05 PM on May 28, 2008

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hey is this a question girls will be knowing everything then boys don't be silly

Answered by ashwin k at 2:06 PM on May 28, 2008

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tell him nothing special happen at 1 night as he & bhabhi ji must be tired throught the function sooooooooooooo bleh belh bleh

Answered by ujjaval shah , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:50 PM on May 28, 2008

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its nothing to worry abt, u jst suggst ur cousn 2 just 4gt abt all dat & jst start intractng wid hr fianc,D more they wil talk 2 eachothr D more they wil b familiar wid & also dat they shld meet & hv discusn on such pnts,i tink it wld help hr 2 gt rid of dis fobea at grter %.

Answered by 4u2ci at 12:44 AM on May 28, 2008

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Do you want really any advice on love or infatuation??

Answered by Prakash , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:44 PM on May 27, 2008

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there is nothing to comment on this as this night is famous bcoz that's its a secret ...so let's remain it as secret only..otherwise it will loose its importance.....let ur cousin feels it so..........even she loves that....feeling....

Answered by piyush at 8:56 PM on May 27, 2008

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She will herself come to know about it. You dont worry abut her.

Answered by LATIKA SAIN , an ibibo Advisor, at 8:25 PM on May 27, 2008

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