If a girl become pregnant and fiancee dont want child. He is insisting for abortion and girl want to become mother. what is correct decesion.  

Well, to be short, don't kill the baby for a mistake committed by your haste.


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Answered by AGASTYA , an ibibo Advisor, at 9:06 PM on December 10, 2008

abortion is the number one sin in the God...you are a criminal in that...that baby is innocent for all that sins that a girl made...baby is an angel...you should give a chance to the baby that she/he sees the beauty of the world...and what the life can be...abortion is not good it cannot be forgiven...and u should know that.

Answered by Mary Jean , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:43 AM on October 23, 2008

mistake was done before as they didn decide it before going for sex , they could have used contraceptive . . . as now she is pregnant it should be her decision as she the one who will be carrying baby and will have to take most of baby care later , if mother is not mentally prepared for motherhood it harmful for her and for other relations she share with baby and husband

Answered by Devinder , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:24 PM on August 24, 2008

Friend this is an ignominous situation and indian culture prohibit this kind of pregnancy. Friend you one should deliberate on this before having sex. Sex no doubt cannot be avoided in the present day culture still pregnacy before marriage really nonsense. Better get married and have a licence to child bearing. Talk with the girl with a cool mind and persuade her for an abortion.

If Not possible consult your parents and go for a short gun marriage.
Thanks

Answered by Sudama , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:09 PM on May 01, 2008

well the correct decision is that should not be so excited that u did it and now when u did it and ur fiancee becomes pregnant then first u try to understand her by calm that we don't want the child at now because their are many things to be done in life like that. ask her why she don't want to do it.
or if she don't do that so, talk to ur family's about this or u can also make fear to tell about this to their parents but not recommended.
well as she is ur fiancee then its better for both of u to be marry as early as possible.

Answered by Nz , an ibibo Master, at 6:54 PM on April 27, 2008

Hi man meet,
Its time for the two to decide for their future. If this is decision hat has made then haver different opinions then they should ask each other for the reasons behind their respective opinions.
This could help them understand each others point of vies and then accordingly they could reach a decision.
In case the two continue t disagree then they would have to think about the future of the relationship as well.
If the situation arises then the girl has the final rite to have the decision on the fate of the newborn.

Answered by Yatan , an ibibo Advisor, at 8:38 AM on March 03, 2008

One should think of the future of the innocent baby,he should get the love and respect of both the parents.How will he face the harsh World.Girl should speak to the boy if possible get married after all this baby would be his as well,so what's wrong in settling down.If nothing works out then i would say getting abortion done is the only solution.

Answered by meaning , an ibibo Specialist, at 4:38 PM on February 07, 2008

correct decision is 2 see d pros n cons of bringing dat child in dis world
a single parent upbringing is unhealthy 4 d child
better abort n b careful in future

Answered by neha gogia , an ibibo Advisor, at 3:05 PM on February 06, 2008

I believe, gal should give birth....21st century girls are so generous and independent that they don't need to worry......Being an unmarried mother is also a dignity.......I SALUTE HER

Answered by Rajendra at 9:37 AM on February 05, 2008

As per legal rules no one even the fiancee or the husband can force the pregnancy to be terminated.This decision lies essentially with the lady and legally that is the correct decision.

Answered by Dr.Anil , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:21 AM on February 05, 2008