My Dear Simi ..this guy who u claim to love...actually never loved u for wht U r or as U r...otherwise the need to change urself for him wud never have arised..he wud hv loved u in ur totality..another point..the fact that u changed urself 4 him made him also lost his respect for u...but dear dont cry on split milk and get on with ur life..treat it as a lesson learnt which wil stand u in good stead...as for him ...Good Riddance !!!!!

Answered by M . , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:07 PM on May 20, 2008

Hi Simi,
I suggest love is something what you feel, something that last within you, its not necessary you will get that person. It doesn't matter whether the front person loves you or not, show him how much you love him and still if he doesn't accepts you or if he is kind of flirt then there is no point in wasting time with him. Never know you may find someone better then him or someone may find the simplicity in you. Love is not something that you need to change for others but its accepting for what we are. You be always nice to him irrespective whether he likes you or not.
Learn to accept the life as it comes... life is fun at each and every moment .. ejoy each and every moment..
Keep cool ... Take care ... :-)

Answered by Fahim Shaikh , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:57 PM on May 12, 2008

dear simi,
it is not other's fault and nobody can blame him fro his acts except you(consideration). because u had to take necessary steps before u love him. u have to make sure what kind of person he is. and it made me laugh that during all these days u couldn't understand him. simi try to understand human beings because in our society there are many who really acts drama or mask bearers. and u do not notice the real friends who really loves u. so try to isolate the people those acts like ur bloody boy friend. and make new relation after making sure that he is "well". okey bye and best wishes to find new friends....................... .......

Answered by JINU LAZER , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:54 PM on May 12, 2008

Being a psychologist u should be able to advise many persons of this sort of problems. Ok Simi, At this age many young girls tend to loose themselves. They usually rectify themselves at a later age group.
No problem. You just had an affair and has been broken. Thank god u have been saved from the wrong person. These infactuation will wear off slowly and u will become a much more mature girl.
Try to be friendly with everybody and dont be self oriented with a particular person alone.
Just forget everything and keep urself active.
I think u wont have any problem anymore.
Take care.
With regards,
Siva.

Answered by Siva Sankar , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:38 PM on May 12, 2008

simi he was never yours .coz he wouldnt have left u if his luv had been true..

and u shud luv a person who luvs u for what u are...

Answered by Ankit , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:06 AM on May 10, 2008

recoup to your own self, forget him and move ahead. world is big enough and you can find thosands of people better than your old friend.

Answered by bhavesh , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:12 PM on April 25, 2008

Its time to take revenge from him. Wherever he went, just follow him and say others that he's your boy friend. Make a rubbish image of him in the society, the he will repent for what he did. Don't leave him, now he's yours, make him realize that you love him. Don't be heartbroken. Accept the challenge and you will win it.
Have sweet days ahead.

Answered by R A , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:57 PM on April 25, 2008

Simi ! this is great thing happened with you . this is good that he left you. You had given him your true love and even than he could not understood you. He was not a right person for you. It is always batter that a wrong person leave you in a early stage. This is good for you. He is a fool or may be a selfish person who would hurt you more in future. So it is better he has gone. You may take some time to heal your emotional hurts but for long run this is in your favor
please take care and forget him. see forward...

Answered by S K Jain , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:15 PM on April 23, 2008