My dob:31-03-1983,time:3:05p m,place:nagpur and my boyfriend's dob:11-03-1983,time:5:00p m,place:lucknow.Please advice if this marriage is possible/preferable.?  

Both the charts indicate when considered on an individual basis contain some weaknesses related to marriage. What I mean to say is that it does not matter whether you two marry each other or marry another, there are some issues that need remedial measures. In your case esp, your father can be in opposition to the marriage with your boyfriend. In your boyfriend's case, his expectation of you may increase significantly, and you may not be able to match it frequently. Both of you have the same set of benefics and malefics. The good thing about this combination is that you can appease the same planets and strengthen the same. However, the other side of this combination is that transit combinations will have an equal impact on both of you and it may be difficult for one to compensate for the difficulties of the other.

Both of you can try following the below mentioned remedial measures:

1. Appeasement of Malefic Planets
Moon: Keep a pot of fresh water for the birds
Rahu: Give part of breakfast for the crows / birds (or donate twice a year for the welfare of lepers, cancer and AIDS patients)
Ketu: Give some food to a stray dog (or donate twice a year to old age homes, spiritual institutions)

2. Wear a kavach, an auspicious amulet, which can be procured from Prof V K Choudhry at www.yournetastrologer.com

3. Stones that can be worn: Ruby, Emerald, Diamond, Zircon, Yellow Sapphire, Topaz, Blue Sapphire, Red Coral
Stones that cannot be worn: Pearl, Gomedh, Cat's Eye

Best wishes,

Information and Disclaimer: The following astrological reading is based on the principles of Systems' Approach to Hindu Astrology propounded by Prof V K Choudhry, Gurgaon, India. However, the reading is based on my interpretations, analysis and capabilities. 'Planets', 'stars' and similar terminologies that are used represent benefic and malefic energies that are a reflection of our karmas. My opinion is that life events are as a result of choices we make every moment and of choices that we have made in the past. However, we may not be aware of the best choices. My belief is that the Systems' Approach helps us make the best choices. The remedial measures suggested, when followed consistently, should help protect you, renew and maintain your positive energies, and deflect and absorb your negative energies. All analysis is also dependent on the accuracy of data provided.

Answered by asdfgf 1937 at 8:10 PM on May 27, 2009

You can take a call for marriage as you both get 22.5 points out of possible 36.only thing i find disturbing is that you both will have less respect for each other & this mayl be a flashpoint for disputes. Also there is a nadi dosha but some learned astrologer do not give much weightage to it as it refers to comfort in physical relation.In our society it takes bak seat.you both do not have manglik dosha in your chart

Answered by ARVIND at 12:30 AM on May 26, 2009