No i do not agree with this because if we do like this we will be called selfish person.But we should try to give love to someone who is need first than we will automatically get love in return.This will help some person who really was in need of our love.

Answered by UWON . , an ibibo Master, at 7:31 PM on August 07, 2008

yes i do agree with this but when one belongs to a family a nation all things had to be kept in the mind

Answered by Rajesh Goyl , an ibibo Advisor, at 9:53 PM on August 05, 2008

Your point in the question on love indicates a different perspective. Otherwise, every human being on Earth loves himself. Even an animal loves itself. This love is an impulsive instinct which comes with us at the time of birth.

However, I agree with you that to love others, I should first know to love me. That means I must know what pains and hurts me, same thing pains and hurts others. Likewise, what pleases me pleases others too. Unless I inculcate those feelings in me, I will not be able to feel others’ feeling.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 7:55 PM on August 04, 2008

your first love should be u urself. if u love urself u know wat love is and accordingly u can share it with others too. if u donot love urself means u do not know wat love is. and dear friend if u donot know wat is love , how can u be expected to love others.

it has a meaning so love urself passionately.

Answered by p kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:06 PM on August 04, 2008

According to Froyed, the great psychologist, to love someone else, we need to love ourselves first. Unless we love ourself, we can't love anything else in this world. Love is a internal feeling and it should grow within us. Once we can wake up this affection for ourself, we can go for loving others. The presence of love for something is first felt within ourself.

Answered by MRIDUL BORA , an ibibo Master, at 12:58 AM on August 04, 2008

Truely i agree for if u cant love urself truly u cant love ny1 around u....love can nevr b selfless!!

Answered by Chandroma , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:49 PM on August 03, 2008

You must love yourself first and foremost. If you don't love yourself how can you expect anyone else to truly love you. we should learn to love our souls ,inner image,so that we can build self confidence also.

Answered by Satyakam , an ibibo Master, at 9:47 PM on August 03, 2008

Yea I agree with your thinking as it will help to boost your self-esteem and thereby strengthen your power source to give and receive love.

Answered by ashwin shah , an ibibo Advisor, at 7:07 PM on August 03, 2008