They generally do not change. That is when they find themselves. The love and affection they used to shower so frequently is now divided and shared by the spouse. If she is good enough she takes away the lion's share and others are given chicken feed. The persons sharing the affection feel cheated and blame the guy. . But they fail to become understanding and sympathetic.

Answered by Vijay Kayal , an ibibo Master, at 11:00 AM on August 02, 2009

People who got married are bound to be busy in settling the equilibrioum of newcommer with their family, so they change only for sometime.

Answered by mukesharda , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:35 PM on August 01, 2009

people donot change it is their priorities in life which requires their attention more makes them change.

responsibilities increases in life after marriage so is the involvement of the people to fulfill that increases.

Answered by P Kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:46 PM on July 16, 2009

Life demands and view are changed at that time so as well as person will also change, and its good, apriciate that changes because your partner may be want to be live happy with yourself, if you take any other way then your life will gonna in trouble.

Answered by Ramakant , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:24 PM on July 10, 2009

It is the marriage which brings in change in people to lead a happy life..

Answered by Ashwani Kuma , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:29 PM on July 10, 2009

marriage change life a lot.. their role changes.. now they are no more boys/girls.. they have new role like husband / wife/ father/mother/saas/bahu/ to play so many roles at the same time.. they are forced to change...

Answered by Abdullah , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:33 AM on July 10, 2009

After marriage people live in different world. And that is the world of commitment to each other. The living style and everything before and after marriage are totally different.
For an ideal marriage the presupposed elements are,
1. The primary roles for an ideal marriage are to be played by the husband and the wife.
2. Both husband and wife should know and understand each other properly.
3. A congenial and good relation between the two families.
4. Both should commitment to each other.
5. There should be trust between husband and wife.
6. Openness of both towards other members of the family.
7. The main and the final element is the objective towards achieving an ideal marriage in the long run.
If it is so then people have to change accordingly. But from a girlfriend's (who is not married to him) point of view the person seems different in a change that the girl feels neglected after the marriage. That situation is the same the girl also when she gets married to another person giving a break to her boy friend.

Answered by naopiti , an ibibo Master, at 8:57 PM on July 09, 2009

Dear Shaila.....

have you ever seen " A bulbul" or "A Koyle" is singing in cage as she was singing in open sky.......

Just same condition is applying when a people get married. Marriage is just a cage of human life...... this is mostly accepted one reason.

Answered by Anwar , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:37 PM on July 09, 2009

The change in a person after marriage is very obvious.You start living with a partner with whom you share many responsibilities, housework,thoughts,so the change is very natural.And in a way, it is a good sign.

Answered by anurau , an ibibo Citizen, at 6:31 PM on July 09, 2009

When responsibilites dump a rod on the head - every body change there rutin tune dear

Thats the answer

Answered by Yash Parmar , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:53 PM on July 09, 2009