Is todays children right in taking their own decision in finding their life partner and getting married without asking the parent?  

Parents approval is amust whether children opt for arrange marriage or love marriage.
In today's world children became busy in their own life and they prefer choosing their own life partner,and it is correct to some extent as well.Hence parents should give approval without any negative feelings.But that doesnot mean that parents should agree to a wrong decision ,as a responsibility of the parents they should cross check about the family and the girl.
At the end of the day parents also want to see their kids happy and settled.So they should also give full support to their kids.

Answered by Debasis , an ibibo Master, at 2:07 PM on May 08, 2008

No.....
Before taking decision of marriage ,children should ask to thier Parents .
atleast they should inform abt their decision.
Finally they r taking the decision of their Life.

Answered by Dayanand at 1:39 PM on May 02, 2008

it is not right and comn but though boys and girls chose sometimes their partners but ultimatelt they go to family for approval some exceptions are always there

Answered by Sarvesh , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:00 PM on April 22, 2008

Yes children have right to select their life partner . t the same time they have to get consent and blessings of parents. Marriage is an important event. Through the marriage two families are also connected . The parents are also there to see their child’s life is going on especially of girls . It is not advisable or wise to select life partner and getting married without asking parents . Important question is why should the child take life partners and get married without asking parents ?

Answered by ansyton , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:18 PM on April 20, 2008

It is a normal trend. Actually, as we are to live our life with our life partner, it is right for us to choose our life partner ourselves. But most of the present generation are too fast in selecting their life partners. They are emotionally blind and so most of the times they ignore most of the things which are important for future peaceful relation. So, the number of divorces are increasing day by day. But, I support the trend of selecting ones lifepartner of his/her own. Because, by this the person has a flexibility in picking up the right match for himself/herself.
In arranged marriages, lots of things are to be taken into consideration and a marriage results out of some compromises. But in the later case it is not so.

Answered by MRIDUL BORA , an ibibo Master, at 1:33 AM on April 20, 2008

Now the kids are more mature and can think what is good for them. There is no harm if they choose their life partners but they should consult their parents also as they are more experienced.

Answered by loony , an ibibo Advisor, at 8:02 PM on April 19, 2008

No, its is not right. They must seek advice becausea matured opinion helps. Afdter that, they can weigh the pros & cons & then decide. It is always better to weigh all the options before deciding.

Answered by varsha , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:02 AM on April 19, 2008

Its difficult to draw a line if or not they are right in their selection of their life partners in today's. The case is relative. If the boys and girls are matured enough to see the right and wrong sides of the things it is ok. After all the children of the parents have their own ways of handling life which might not cohere to that of their's. there should not be a generation gap feeling in the minds of the parents that their children have defied their role to select their life partners. Now the time is changed as compared to that of the 50s and 60s. In all the decision of the children parents should not poke their heads, this is what I feel. every individual is a separate case and has his/her own taste and senses that might not match with the parents and this should not be a hurting event for them.

Answered by Rajib Gurung , an ibibo Master, at 10:49 PM on April 18, 2008

Totally.Children should be responsible for their own decision.

Answered by tavleen , an ibibo Advisor, at 9:38 PM on April 18, 2008

Not at all...they do have the right to choose their life partners however it is very imp to informa their parents and then proceed...and now-a-days parents have become moderate and trust their childern....so its always better to consult parents before taking any decision...,End of the day they are our welwishers right and who love us.

Answered by Jeedith , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:19 PM on April 18, 2008