It does not matter she loves another, matter is "She is faithful to u? Respecting u? understand u? doing her responsibilties? If the last three r yes then i dont see any problm. But if these r negative then u have only one way,the way on which she can not b ur............................?

Answered by Satish kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:28 PM on April 17, 2008

hi,
your question is tricky,and there is no simple answer for it.People do fall for other person while they are still married,and its more common than we think it is.What a person would do depends on his mental make up,but the crucial question is this,why some body would want love outside of the marriage at the first place,does not that show marriage was lacking something.If the women does want to get out of the marriage ,then her husband should comply ideally,but we dont live in a ideal world ,so people do tend to drag things,and complicate matter.
But if there is a children in a relationship then raising him/her ,should be priority,and one should put them in the priority list and yes ,if somebody wants to repair their marriage its probablly never to late.I think,i have been confusing in my answer but is sawal ka bhi koi sidha jobab hai,ye mujhe malum nehi parta...
-dwaipayan

Answered by dwaipayan , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:37 PM on April 07, 2008

It is a natural thing. Love is an emotion and it can be for anyone around us. If such a thing is evolving in the heart of his wife, the man should find his lapses in taking care of his beloved(wife). There must be few lapses for which the spouse feel the tendency to divert her attention towards someone else. The husband should try to find out his laggings in maintaining the relation and if essential should discuss the matter with his wife. Than he should try to fulfill his laggings. I think this could redivert her affection to her husband from the third person.
The husband should make the wife feel free to describe her feelings freely. An open discussion regarding the matter and the follow ups thereafter can lead a healthy relation.

Answered by Sarvesh , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:39 PM on April 02, 2008

It is strange situation, Kabhi Alvida na kahan situation. The husband can only give divorce to the wife and ask her to marry the man she loves. This is the only solution. It is hard to leave a women u love very much but one cannot make his wife to forceful love him. If this couple is having children then it is a hell for kids. The couple should blame the parents of the wife for not understanding the feelings of their daughter and fix a marriage with a wrong person.

Answered by Madhu Vamsi , an ibibo Master, at 11:13 PM on April 01, 2008

This depends on individual person's perspectives. There are lots of cases which are, however, under carpet, that either the woman or the man has an extramarital affair. It becomes an issue only when it comes to the light to the person concerned. The general tendency on the husband is to react strongly, even going to the threat of divorce. It is easier to break than to build. In my view the husband and wife should have open discussion on the matter and if the wife regrets the husband should let her a chance and this is not necessary that the husband too takes on the same path as his wife had taken.

Answered by Rajib Gurung , an ibibo Master, at 10:14 PM on April 01, 2008

Kill her.

Answered by ashok , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:20 PM on March 31, 2008

after coming into a sacred bonding like marriage if a girl fall for other man then one should leave that girl instantly, coz i think you can't spend ur whole life with a double minded girl , the man should face this thing with a strong heart and he should move on in life

Answered by ankit , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:19 AM on March 31, 2008

It is very difficult but you have to be strong enough to handle the situation and ask her what is that made her move away from you.

Answered by Ashish , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:24 PM on March 30, 2008

i think he should allow his wife to go with her lover as after knowing this truth they can't live happily together so no use of maintaining a relationship .

Answered by Lily , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:12 AM on March 30, 2008