I think you should disclose the fact to your husband. You should inform him that you have forgot your past and starting a new life with him. You should also inform him about the way your ex-boyfriend blackmailing you. As your marriage is supposed to be arranged one(as per situation), your husband should understand the fact though he may have an initial shock. After your husband is convinced your misery, you should approach police to put your ex boyfriend behind the bar.

Answered by MRIDUL BORA , an ibibo Master, at 12:33 AM on April 01, 2008

you should never be blackmailed in your life whatever happens make this first and last principle you can what you wnat diclose or not but donot be afraid of the blackmailer

Answered by rajesh goyl , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:07 PM on March 30, 2008

You should not fulfill your ex-boyfriends demands.
Speak to your husband & tell him how & why this guy is harassing you.
Your husband might get angry but its better then fulfilling your ex-boyfriends demands.
That will be adultery & if your husband comes to know about that he might never forgive you.
Tell your husband now he is the only man in your life & that guy was my past.

Answered by Ravi Nagrani , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:32 PM on March 27, 2008

I still see something fishy from your end, how come your boyfriend got your phone number, even after you got married. Does this mean you still talking to him oftenly or you did showed soft side to your boyfriend. Invite boyfriend to your home and loge a complaint "attemtp to rape"...let your boyfriend enjoy dating in ps. best of luck !!!

Answered by ZaPPy , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:19 AM on March 16, 2008

This is really serious. He is blackmaling you. Talk to his friend or someone, who can help you. Otherwise last option will be left to tell everything to your husband before that guy disclose.

Answered by Aruna Saini , an ibibo Specialist, at 8:23 PM on March 15, 2008

hello, before he reaches ur hubby tell all the truth abt ur past to ur hubby, pls don't worry tell him that he was ur bf in college days & he is blackmailing u now, if ur hubby is good than the problem will get solved.

Answered by bestbaatuni , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:04 PM on March 14, 2008

Those who eat salt have to drink water . At first you can tell this to your husband without delay and do as he decide.

Answered by ansyton , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:42 PM on March 09, 2008

if your husband is smooth and sensitive dont tell him but bring him the aspect indirectly .if he is closest minded to you then directly discuss with him .remember if you drop this late it will give bad results because it is not a game.even a well controlled me ecome agry in these kind of issues deal in calm with your husband and file a case at polie station this will help you .

Answered by budhi , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:48 AM on March 09, 2008

You tell your husband first then other...but must ignore the boyfriend....and lodge a complant to local police station after that...teach him a good lession.

Answered by Sujesh Khan at 3:00 AM on March 09, 2008