I wonder what caused the marriage. If it was a love marriage then you ought to know the person's nature. If it was an arranged one, you ought to complain to the in-laws. The family is a good protector . It will look into the matter.
But, by the looks of it your husband maybe tied up in some job and maybe he is earning too little to make both ends meet. Maybe he is in some trouble. You were married in 2004 and this is 2009 and I wonder how did you manage so long. It will be better to look after a job to gain some financial support. Further, enquire if the guy is in some jeopardy.
If you take legal action, he will be forced to come to terms. He will be made to pay for your livelihood.
It seems that you are not in such a dire situation. Seek assistance of your own parents and that of your husband's. I wish you well.
Answered by
Vijay Kayal
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2:01 PM on May 12, 2009