This is a sensitive case and u should handle it very carefully, rather she shuld be told all the pros and cons about it and it should be disclosed in a easy way.

Answered by raj surya , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:40 PM on March 01, 2008

If you really wish for a good future of her, then immediately stop viewing it in the home where she is present. Otherwuse take it as a common erotic fantasy.

Answered by rama67 at 1:01 PM on February 05, 2008

You had better not to involve your sister in to the matter , advice your niece that her friends will make fun of her if they come to know about her peeping out . remind her that this unfair customs are very bad especially when a girl is concerned and this kind of pictures and magazines will mislead them and divert their attention from study which will inturn affect their future , Encourage her to study well and be proud of leading a very good life .

Answered by breeze , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:00 PM on February 02, 2008

well...
i too of 14 years old......u own make her understood...nd don't tell to ur sis.

Answered by rohit raj at 8:04 PM on February 01, 2008

judging by ur question i think u r well acquainted wid porn nd stuff nd it seems u r so comfortable wid porn... so i advice u to discuss porn sex masturbation etc wid ur sis's daughter freely and make her understand abt d female body nd menstruation nd porn nd sex... it will b gud for her ... nd olso advice her to hav safe sex nd tell her to make her bf wear a condom

Answered by amit biswas , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:52 PM on February 01, 2008

she is a teen now.every teen has a curiosity to know more. u shud tell her only in a friendly manner, if u try to scold her she will do more and go out of the way, let her explore and educate herself instead of getting educated by someone.

Answered by Kennet , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:48 PM on February 01, 2008

depends on who is closer to her. she would take the advice from a person whom she empathises with.

Answered by Gopinath at 7:42 PM on February 01, 2008

i think u shud advise ur niece. tell her abt the significance of this teenager age as most of the hormonal changes occur during this period .

Answered by jazzkalra at 7:38 PM on February 01, 2008

its better if u advice her first rather than saying ur sister advice her in such a way that she must not feel bad and she should understand wat ur trying to explain her ok na take care bye bye

Answered by reshma khan , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:35 PM on February 01, 2008

adv your niece first but if she persist on peeping into that porno pics, that's the time for you to tell your sis.

Answered by iran at 7:34 PM on February 01, 2008