Hi Shabnam, First of all u should speak out with ur BF about the problem in cool manner. If he has no idea's to solve the problem then u try to solve the problem. If u don't have any idea to solve the big debt then u should approach a person who can solve can help u & ur BF to come out of financial crises. You explain to ur BF not worry and calm him. tell him that their a solution we can work out. It is better u take the opinion of elders like ur parents or ur BF parents or even relative or friends can help u..All the best

Answered by Madhu Vamsi , an ibibo Master, at 1:27 AM on April 18, 2008

Tell your BF that its the way of life. Also remind him that while investing he very much had the knowledge that he could lose the money depending upon the market conditions. Tell him that he is a man and he has to stand the test of time. If there is dusk there has to be a dawn and vice versa.

Answered by taku raju , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:35 PM on April 15, 2008

Be supportive and help him relax while with you . encourage him tho to cover his risks more the next time around if thats what you agree he should do .

Answered by Clayton , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:25 PM on April 09, 2008

MERE PADOSI SHARE HOLDER
HENCE I THINK 2-4 LAKH K GHATE KO FYDE MAY BADALNA JYADA MUSHKIL NAHI
JAB MARKET SE SUB BAHAR PADTE HAI TUB AAP ENTER KARO AISA ''WOREN BAFEY ' ' NE KAHA THA
SO KEEP ON LINE

Answered by swapnil , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:58 PM on April 07, 2008

money is lost then nothing is lost , show him that u r always there for him in whatever situation, ur love and caring attitude can make difference.

Answered by vishal , an ibibo Advisor, at 8:04 PM on April 01, 2008

You must talk to him and this will ease out the tension.give him a lot of assurance.

Answered by Ashish , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:39 AM on March 31, 2008

Tips for dealing with stress
Don't worry about things you can't control, such as the weather.
Prepare to the best of your ability for events you know may be stressful, such as a job interview.
Try to look at change as a positive challenge, not as a threat.
Work to resolve conflicts with other people.
Talk with a trusted friend, family member or counselor.
Set realistic goals at home and at work.
Exercise on a regular basis.
Eat well-balanced meals and get enough sleep.
Meditate.
Participate in something you don't find stressful, such as sports, social events or hobbies.
Im sure these steps would help you to take your boy freind out of stress.

Answered by meaning .. , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:44 PM on March 28, 2008

I saw your question right now. first console him that this is only a slip and you have a better friend to hold you,to lift you everything will come back to normal again.There will be a better tomorrow than today.help him with better words change his thoughts,this will do...

Answered by balaji k , an ibibo Citizen, at 6:37 PM on March 27, 2008

u know this time cumes in everyones life b4 or after marriage.... all u can do as a girlfrnd is just support him morally becoz that also counts.... try n not discuss ur probs wid him..... n give him space if he demands.....look dont try to offer him money coz guys dont like takin money as it hurts da man in them more..... just be as helpful.... if hes ready for financial help n if u can then ntn like it....n also spend as much time wid him as u can so dat he thinks less of dat n motivate him to take up some other work so dat finances take up a front seat again coz if order to out of financial crisis u gotta start making money

Answered by darla , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:02 PM on March 26, 2008

you try to feel him that you r with him. and try to divert his mind in another way when he is with you try to keep happy. go outside with him. and tell him he is not alone and you face this satuation togather. when he feel you are with him and he get moral support from you we will definatelly feel batter

Answered by simran , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:10 PM on March 26, 2008