There must be something odd in you attained from your friend, which your father might have noticed. Just judge yourself you will find it.

Answered by Narender Kum , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:25 PM on October 10, 2008

You should talk first with your mother and clarify her that why your friend is your best one and why your friend is good for you and then at the end you request your mother to discuss with your father in presence of you about the problem. I think a nice way out will definitely come out in your favour. Try and enjoy friendship with your best friend.

Answered by AGLOCO , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:43 AM on October 07, 2008

well saqib when your father telling you to not to go with your best friend out then it means he knew something bad about your best friend otherwise why he didn't permit you to go with him.a son you have to follow your father but not your friend because your father has seen many more life than you it means he has a lots of experience than you.that's why according to me you should follow your father's advice if you like to go with your f\best friend then you can convince you father about this but according to me your father's decision is good decision. so follow your father but not your best friend.
Thank You.

Answered by Debasis , an ibibo Master, at 3:10 PM on October 04, 2008

In my opinion your father is more experienced and more reliable. The youthful deliquencies are not proper.It is always better to honour the elders.

Answered by Vijay Kayal , an ibibo Master, at 11:22 AM on September 29, 2008

A best friend is always assumed as the best from all sides. He/she never seeks anything bad of his friend. Therefore, if you best friend wants you to come with him which your father denies, before taking a decision, you review your situation in the following lines.
1. Be convinced yourself with the rationale of objective of your friend.
2. If you are convinced with your friend’s intent; tell your father about your friend thoroughly.
3. Your father may not be aware of your friend. Make your father understand that he is not like any other person; he is your best friend and therefore, he would not to harm you in any way.
Now, before you take a decision you keep one thing in mind that no parent on Earth ever want their children should be deprived of good things.. Parents always want their children to grow properly and lead happy moral lives. For pursuit of such dream, sometime, they have to disagree to the children on certain occasions. But behind that there must be good reasons. Therefore, you honestly analyse your proposed actions within yourself. If you find yourself in correct way, talk to your father. Hopefully, he would agree to you.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 5:11 AM on September 24, 2008

There must be some valid reason for your father's objection.All father and mother wish only the well being of their children.So,as an obedient son,I advice you,not to go against your father's wish.

Answered by SUKUMARAN , an ibibo Master, at 9:53 PM on September 23, 2008

If the purpose of your best friend is noble and constructive there is no harm to go with him. You just need to make your father understand that your best friend is not like any other ordinary boy. If you give a detail about him I think he would permit you to accompany your friend.

Answered by K. Rajib , an ibibo Master, at 8:04 PM on September 23, 2008

Hi saq i think it is not a big problem ,tell me why your father not allowing ,is your friend not good character if yes then your father must be worried he can spoil ur life career ,if not then convince your parents that you need him and you both have very good friendship and can help each other in problems i think your father will agree with u.

Answered by Satyakam , an ibibo Master, at 7:12 PM on September 23, 2008

friendships should kept unhurt forever. So it is not fair not to go with your friend obeying father's order.
father may not be aware how great is that guy to you. Convince father there is nothing wrong trouble in going with the friend. if your fathe once convinced he will not prevent you from going with him in future aslo.

Answered by Priyarajan , an ibibo Specialist, at 5:37 PM on September 23, 2008