your past is haunting you..its quite normal, but it is not desirable. Ideally you should leave ur past behind and should be free from all fears. Now, the Q is hw to do it?
There is an exercise in Dianetics, this is called auditing. This is done with the help of a friend, who is called an auditor.
U can get more info on dianetics on : http://www.dianetcs.org

U can get more info on Auditing on : http://www.auditing.org/wis5_2.htm

Google for mor resources on these topics.

Answered by dhiraj , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:07 PM on April 29, 2008

Its very natural to feel the way you are feeling after a live experience. You should try to regain your lost/losing confidence and try to think that what happened has happened and it is not going to repeat. You are lucky to escape the accidents unhurt and what else do you want. You are special and your lucky stars are procteting you. Accidents kya karega jab khuda tera rakhwala, ki wahi hota hai jo khuda manjure hota hai.

Answered by taku raju , an ibibo Citizen, at 6:09 PM on April 15, 2008

Some accidents leave a scar on your mind and sometimes you get over it faster and sometimes it takes time as this is all in the mind.

Answered by Ashish , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:50 AM on April 11, 2008

I went hru a similar phase once and what helped me was to very clearly balme the accident on myself and put the onus of doing things right all the time whilst driving i.e anticipating , being careful, following rules etc --and I have not had an avoidable accidents since then . Try it ,tell yourself that you were in some way responsible for those acidents and you will not make any mistakes yourself an you should be Ok , but do drive and your confidence will come back .

Answered by Clayton , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:18 PM on April 05, 2008

hey u remember as a kid wen u first learnt how to cycle or do skating..... dere was always a fear of falling and hurting urself but still u never stopped coz u knew u had to be strong ryt? see accidents may happen to anyone anywhere and it just gives u an experience of where u were wrong or how u cud have overcum da situation ....... fear is always dere wen even ur cookin of burning but u dont stop so over cum dat fear lyk dey say key dar k aage jeet hai .... be strong n have a positive thot n learn from ur accidents on how to be more careful..... take care n god bless n hope u becum strong soon

Answered by darla , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:07 PM on April 04, 2008

This is a fear you have developed and this is quite natural .In due course of time youwill be able to get rid of it .

Answered by Malti Singh , an ibibo Advisor, at 5:19 PM on April 04, 2008

hello, u met accidents on two types of vehicles now try to ride bicycle & if it doen't happened than ok & after that upgrade ur vehicles from bicycles to scooty & to car ok.

Answered by Chhotu Pande , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:50 PM on April 04, 2008

Dont worry about your accidents.....rather concentrate on your previous mistakes...if something is written bad for u in future it will happen but it can be avoided by good did....Cheers...Drive Safely...And Gods Wish...

Answered by Danish Momin , an ibibo Specialist, at 1:11 AM on April 03, 2008

don't feel so scared rather you are a very brave girl as after metting with so many accidents than also you are trying for the driving of vehicles so be confident and have trust on god.

Answered by alok , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:22 PM on April 02, 2008

It is true that once we met an accident, we are so horrified that our unconscious mind always imagines a similar incidence or even worse. This is a natural thing. Not only accidents, in case of betrayal also same thing happen and we can not take other people in confidence after that.
But we still have to live our life and so travel. It is better for us if we can forget the accident as a worse nightmare and start a new life thereafter. But still we should take care not to commit similar mistakes that cause the accident. It is always necessary to be cautious while driving and so if little extra precaution we take, we are safe. Stop worrying and decrease the speed at which you drive to some extant. A slow driving will have low risk of accidents.

Answered by MRIDUL BORA , an ibibo Master, at 11:07 PM on April 02, 2008