one should introspect as to what went wrong so that the same mistake doesnot happen again.might be it was not love at all just infatuation or physical attraction and later it turned out to be a case of sheer incompatibility.it is easy to find faults with others but pointing a finger at others mean that other four fingers are already pointed towards yourself

Answered by Opee V , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:17 AM on September 06, 2009

Love starts on an instinct and in an instant. It lasts for longer periods if the wave lengths of the persons concerned are in tune with each other. The wave lenhgths of you and your lover did not match. Good riddnace. Don't rue over losing a bad guy. God has helped you discover that fellow is unworthy of your love. Forget that you ever met him and start living life afresh. We all think that the other persons also will respond the same way we do. It is a folly. It does not happen. There are so many bad elements also in the society.

Answered by Niraimathi , an ibibo Master, at 7:21 AM on September 05, 2009

Every one does mistakes in life . If that person is not worthy of you then why are u punishing yourself.
Forget him as a badchapter in your life and move on.
Start enjoying life and stop looking for love , love will find its own way to you.


Think nefore you act.
Srinivas.

Answered by Srinivas Cho at 12:08 PM on September 04, 2009

No, you are not a bad reputed. But the person with whom you were eloped was a person of thankless & proved to be selfish. Hence I will suggest you to refrain him as far you can.

Answered by Ashwani Kuma , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:56 PM on September 02, 2009

Loving a wrong person does not prove your inability in any way.Do you think that you were appointed to change him for his wrong ways for which you were not responsible?So, stop blaming yourself or give others the opportunity to think in that manner.

Answered by anurau , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:05 PM on September 02, 2009