You love the girl. But her parents are not agreeing to it.
It is not that while you love, parents mostly hate. But when parents are against love; there may be reasons with them.


• There are no parents on Earth who do not love their children. There are no parents who do not desire happiness for their children. This is universal truth. You keep this belief always in your mind. Therefore, as parents they would naturally see that their daughter is safe and sound in future life.
• As they love her, it is their wish that she always be happy and prosper in life.
• Therefore, you find out the real reasons of their opposing your marriage.
• Talk to her parents; tell them the truth very sincerely. Once you can clean your breast to them, I hope, they would agree.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 10:21 PM on January 30, 2009

I think you love the girl and so you just keep loving her. Ignore about her family. Just drag her out of her house and start living together. If I were you, I would have cared for the girl and not for her family as my future is with the girl not with anyone else. But for that you need to have a regular source of income. If you have a regular source of income than elope with the girl whom you love. She too would agree to your decision if she truly loves you.

Answered by MRIDUL BORA , an ibibo Master, at 10:09 PM on January 30, 2009

You love a girl and wish to marry her,but it does not mean that she too loves you and want to marry you.
If she is a good family girl loving more her family surely she won't go against the wishes of her family. If she too loves you and likes to marry you that could have influenced her family members to think on those lines. Now there is left only one thing for you. Through some influential person of her family,try to convience her parents and and satisfy their requirements and get hold on her mind. Ok.

Answered by SUKUMARAN , an ibibo Master, at 9:10 PM on January 30, 2009

If you love her deeply, convince her parents, if you fails to do so, please consult Girl, the favourable relative, who can feedback. If all efforts resulted useless, register your marriage before District marriage Officer

Answered by Mukesh 6666 , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:38 PM on January 30, 2009

bhupander do
You are an outsider but does he love you or did she agreed? Make her tell you the parents are agreed
and you have been conveyed by her
you should have given dob's of both
let her got agreed there with herpartents , if she says go and call on liked a friend
ok? you relikely to be accepted ??

Answered by Ramanamurty , an ibibo Advisor, at 9:55 AM on January 30, 2009

Don't you think the families are the villains in today's Love story. Or are they wise ? When they raise a child they certainly possess some right to interfere in its well being. They have known its whims and wishes. They know what is good or bad. for it.
My humble suggestion is to raise your stature in the eyes of the family. Be someone they like you to be. Be helpful, considerate and appealing. Let them judge you with an awe and a respect. Prove your mattle. Give them reasons enough to think of you as a proper suitor. Learn to know what are their dreams and what are their expectations. Judge yourself from their viewpoint. If you lack somewhere try to improve upon it. Being fully armoured, with a determined effort go and face them. Be bold , say your piece and seek the girl's hand in matrimony. They will respect you for your gesture. Your station will rise in their eyes. Maybe they have never faced such a straightforward situation and maybe they will surrender to your wishes.

Answered by Vijay Kayal , an ibibo Master, at 9:53 AM on January 30, 2009