It is wrong. Love is not blind.
This “Love is blind” is an old proverb. In old days also people fell in love without much reasoning. Whenever beautiful girls/women and boys/men come into contact they normally fell in to love. Later on if and when got married they had to face realities of life and mostly they had to face sufferings or break.
Love is a celestial impulsive inborn instinct. Love is noble, selfless, and self-sacrificing. The love between your father and mother, between husband and wife, between a brother and a sister, between the teacher and a taught, between two friends so on and so forth. Everywhere we call ‘I love you’, ‘you love me’. That is the examples of true love.
Element of love comes with birth. Gradually it develops in to greater area in a comprehensive way. It becomes a matter of understanding, true sharing of feelings and true commitments to each others. Love does not appear over ground suddenly from the blue. Love grows after knowing each other, sharing each other’s feelings, caring and mutual respect. In fact, there is no established formula to acquire love. Love requires vision and approach towards life. Both should be acceptable to each other. In true love, lover does not expect anything in return.
The important aspect in love is confidence and trust earned by both. Trust is most powerful supporting means for love, attraction, admiration
That is why now a day a male and a female or a boy and a girl do not love blindly. They make love after knowing and understanding each other. If they love blindly; their relation would always on a dormant volcano. Anytime there may be eruption; breach of the relation.
Therefore, love cannot be blind.
Answered by
Ramcharan
, an ibibo Master,
at
10:20 PM on January 30, 2009