when a person wishes to separate after long 25 years of together staying and if now all of a sudden takes such decision there must be something serious between the two. this is after all their personal matter and if I am to suggest them to stop executing this decision I must know the reason. It could be possible that the husband has developed an irreparable wrong it would be difficult to ask the woman to forget. what I can do best is to think about the decision over the matter once again after all both of them are matured individuals.

Answered by K. Rajib , an ibibo Master, at 4:44 PM on September 06, 2008

After 25 years some body wants divorce?It is really a surprising issue,25 years of relation menas the couple almost reached 70% of their life,if some one really wants a divorce after such a long years of relation then there must be a severe cause behind this,no spouse can take this type of decision easily.Either the wife is very young compare to her husband and they have no children and the wife wants better sexual relation or the husband is torturing the wife for a long years and now she got any alternate opportunity.I dont think any thing can be done positively if some body has already taken this decision..if they have children then they can do some thing for unity.

Answered by Satyakam , an ibibo Master, at 2:50 PM on September 06, 2008

It rarely happens. It must be the outcome of a long suffering.It shows the couple have tried to survive a lot of problems.In such a situation the children, the parents, the family elders and the relatives should try to make amends.The couple is left with a situation when both of them have reached at least some maturity.Their ages will not attract more tenders.They will have to plunge into an unknown future.The prospects maybe more shadier.
There is no dispute in the world that cannot be decided by discussion.Sympathetic listeners of both the sides should share the idea of reuniting them.A well thought program will have to be initiated.The coup[le will be brought to reason.
If one can, all attempts should be employed to reunite them.

Answered by Vijay Kayal , an ibibo Master, at 2:26 PM on September 06, 2008

I have seen many people taking divorce after a very successful relationship of 20-30 years but i think to stop her taking this step one should try to explain her that there is no need of separation after so many years of staying together.And another way is to solve the problem which is the main root for this separation.

Answered by UWON . , an ibibo Master, at 2:24 PM on September 06, 2008

Seeking separation after spending 25 years happens very rarely. In such situation
1. There must be some genuine ground from her side.
2. Special care has to be taken if reconciliation is sought.
3. Proper analyse of the ground for grievance has to be made.
4. Apposite persuasion should be made.
5. Fool proof solution should be found out.
6. Confidence has to be made in her mind so that it does not repeat in future.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 11:54 AM on September 06, 2008

Separation after this age is very rare, specially in India and its really very difficult to stop this kind of a action as it is not easy one, we just can explain the fact of there age and explain about the sufferer will be children, if they can understand well and good.

Answered by Dan !!!!!! , an ibibo Specialist, at 5:40 AM on September 06, 2008