I love a lady she love me but we can not meet. i am married she is also married. what i do?  

Before making any decision you should clear about your priorities in life. If i am not wrong , for a married individual , his one of the top priority is his or her family & children. Any Decision of yours and your lady is going to affect at least two families. Thus you should decide in favour of your families. Try to forget the whole incidence & move forward in your life. Time will cure the pain & wounds , if any.

Answered by NAVGYAN , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:26 PM on October 04, 2007

Raj you know every third married male is fall in love with some other married woman.If you are thinking about to marry her if you think that you can leave your wife and leave your kids i dont know you have or not and i think if you do this you have to face some social by cott like from ur friends and ancestor. can you quit from your responsibilities ? and you know same thing going to happen from other side to whom you love.and if you think you are attaracted to her and just talk to her and do wat other do (sex).But my advise it,s wise that you have to live with your present family coz you know still we are not mature like foreigner and you know they are adapting our culture and we want to break relation.Dont do this ok

Answered by sweer , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:50 PM on October 03, 2007

Just forget her, never think a little about the lady whom you not met. Please....be happy and enjoy happily married life with your wife which is very important rather than loving other one.

Answered by Ujjal , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:08 PM on October 03, 2007

Stu-e-peed. stop peeing out of ur home, ur next door haivan will eat your other half ,,,,,, got it ,, ,,, Good change attitude now

Answered by asky700 , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:03 AM on October 03, 2007

Hi raj, HOnestly you and your beloved are spoiling 4people's life. If you love her and she loves then you both need to speak to your respective partner and get out of your marriage and get married with whom you love.

Answered by Purple Devil , an ibibo Citizen, at 6:20 PM on October 02, 2007

u can love lady as a friend, so you invite that lady to whom you are loving ask her to be a best friend of you. why because friendship is forever, be as a friend with her.

Answered by balu at 12:16 AM on October 02, 2007

dear raj how can u say it is love ,my dear it is just a attraction of sex& feeling u both have same mind of habbits it happens some times but it is not love, just think in future it will destroy four lifes or more just think about ur family .forgot about love after marriege and advise her also .life is to enjoy so do it with ur family.

Answered by sanju2345 , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:29 PM on October 01, 2007

r u really want to do any thing in ur life if it u not done any mistake iam gvg pl don't spoil ur family life it is u r respoblity to take care of u r family try to forget her don't spoil her life also

Answered by aishu , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:18 PM on October 01, 2007

Raj, the mere fact that you are unable to meet should speak for itself. See what you want to get into is an affair.No one can advise you to get into an affair or not to.You should best evaluate the consequential effects.What is it about this lady that you see and call love,???can you try and project that truthfully to yourself and maybe just maybe you have limited yourself from seeing it in your partner...

Answered by Anatha , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:37 PM on September 30, 2007

Think about your moral responsibility towards ur family if u hv any kids.!Its pure physical and not what u call Love!! Plz dont indulge in these kinda extramarital flings or else u will spoil ur own reputation in the family as well as in society!

Answered by lalli , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:52 PM on September 30, 2007