Many times death is very cruel and leaves a void in one's life.But life has to go on. So no use ruing over the loss of a loved one. Learn and do some meditation. That helps. Read a lot if you have that habit. That makes you less depressed.

Answered by Niraimathi , an ibibo Master, at 6:54 AM on May 10, 2009

Dear gajraj, let me first tel u that ur life is not for the sake of others, is it ? now stop living for others and start living for ur self cozz u r still at the beginning of ur life, u have hell lot of things to do and think about dear...... stop dying for others and start living for urself , and suggestion better watch TERE NAAM and KYA YAHI PYAAR HAI....

Answered by Mohamed , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:47 PM on April 30, 2009

Faith is everything in this world ....same i loose someone very close to my heart but i have a faith in my God....same U do.

Answered by Riti , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:22 PM on April 28, 2009

you can surely live peacefully in this world without any complaints and can make a different place for your self. you are not alone who last some one at small age many of us have the same problem nut they all are not become selfish. if you think that other people are selfish than think about yourself what did you do for the other and you will get the answer

Answered by pooja singh , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:11 PM on April 28, 2009

Buddy, this life is full of ups and down. Every one has to face good days and bad days both in the same life. Although when bad times comes, we do get very upset more so when someone looses close ones. But we have to keep moving on dear, because its a continuous process. Believe me, dark deep nights tells you that dawn is closer. Sorrow and failure is not your monopoly and u will be happy and successful again someday. But u have to hold yourself during your bad times. I cannot say anything more anything less, and what I am saying is my self realization from what life has offered to me..

Answered by Abhijit , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:11 PM on April 27, 2009

I extend my sympathy and condolence on the demiss of someone clsoe to you at the younger age.
IYes it is so painful to loose the you love so much that too at tender age. It is hard to live in this selfishe world where money and might plays a great role.One naturally get depress and disturbed. But still you need to keep up your life and pray to the almigty to give you strength and support .

Answered by Sachin Samy , an ibibo Master, at 10:41 PM on April 27, 2009

The Death is inevitable to we all.It came in to being with our Birth.Its like our shadow moving with us where ever we go.Even while we sleep, it keeps awake by the side of our bed.No one can escape from it because we are born as twins,Birth and Death.
But why then some of us die young and some very old.Its only the " Vidatha"who can reply to this.Actually we are all the flowers in his garden. He nourish us to grow in to differnt types of flowers ,some more beautiful and fragarent and some not so.The " Vidhatha",who is the owner of this garden plugs out the most attractive flower,he liked one to keep with him. The Master who gave the flower to us has got all the right to take it back too when ever He likes.The age is not the criteria for him.So,we have to believe this truth,because we may be the next flower He liked the most. So,taking the Death in its true spirit,realise it and come in term with it.
Death is like a sleep or rest.Sleep gives us great pleasure.Hence Death,which is a deeper sleep must give us greater pleasure.
Our noblest men die young.God gives them the reward of death for their nobleness.
Death has no power to kill any one.Death can work only wth the help of disease,war,poison,accidents,murder ers,etc.We die of these causes.Death can not kill any one directly.Death is not the master but the slave of these causes.( Donnes idea of Death )
So,do not get upseted with the death.After all everything in this world is perishable.
Ok dear.

Answered by SUKUMARAN , an ibibo Master, at 9:25 PM on April 27, 2009

It will be quite advisable to overcome into dipressions. Every one is not selfish in this world there are so many right person, then try to develop the analysing power and live happilly. Nothing impossible in this world and every body is capable to do all the work.

Answered by Mukesh 6666 , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:44 PM on April 27, 2009

If you really want to live peacefully then the best way is to keep your desires limited. When you have less needs you worry least.
Further, the death of a close one whether young or old is always a great loss. The young makes it too cruel. But, that's life. You have to contain yourself with the wishes of the Almighty. Maybe the departed one was a really good person and there was need of good persons with Him.

Answered by Vijay Kayal , an ibibo Master, at 12:24 PM on April 27, 2009

it is bitter truth, we have to face with sudden death of our belongings. You have to adjust yourself by doing job and try to give help to deceased family.

Answered by Bhanu Bhardw , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:53 AM on April 27, 2009