If you are really in love, it is not possible to get out from that bond of love without hurting your partner.
Even if, you pursue her sincerely and convince her about your purpose of leaving, she may apparently show her consent ; but somewhere in her heart that would hurt. You cannot deny that. Because love grows only after knowing and understanding each other. The element of love is very difficult to be eliminated so easily.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 8:54 PM on September 07, 2008

I don't believe that it is possible to end a relationship without causing the other person a degree of hurt. That doesn't mean that you set out to hurt them but if the relationship is more than superficial, which I am presuming it is, ending it can be likened to a sort of death.
Once you have decided that a relationship has run it's course and you want to move on, you should tell the other person as soon as possible.
Never end a relationship by phone or email but tell the other person in person. If you are worried about how they may react, arrange to meet in a public place to deliver your message.

Answered by Satyakam , an ibibo Master, at 2:23 PM on September 07, 2008

Good question Saq,according to my knowledge i want to say that it is not so easy to get out of a love without hurting your partner or i can say your lover isn't it Saq,If you love someone truely,with lots of faith,with lots of undestanding,you can't get of that love without hurting your lover.Lastly i want to say that without a big reason you can't leave your partner or your lover.

Answered by Nilimoy , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:59 PM on September 07, 2008

There is no such way. If you really want to do so then create your own image in a different way.The partner will slowly leave interest in you.The partner's interest will dicert to others and that will not break a heart.

Answered by Vijay Kayal , an ibibo Master, at 1:05 PM on September 07, 2008

Well Personally, I believe you're making a mistake...however, if somthing like distance is going to break the two of you up, it might as well be now. If the two of you can't make arrangements to be with each other more often, it sounds like you need to do a "face to face, IN PERSON", discuss the issue and come to some kind of resolution. You should know that my partner and I have been in a long distance relationship and haven't seen each other for quite some time...yet neither of us want to end the relationship. We both know the the other is 'the someone special we've been waiting our lifetimes for'...and both of us plan to be back together as soon as 'the situation' permits. (He has to stay where he is because of his work...I have to stay where I am to care for elderly family members). It it's meant to be...we will be together. Think about it...any worthwhile relationship is worth waiting and working for...but, then again, if it's just 'lust', why tie yourself down... It's up to you...
Thank You.

Answered by Debasis , an ibibo Master, at 10:03 AM on September 07, 2008

Usually we are in love to remain united but if you want to get out of your love it would be an exceptional case. If you are insistent on your decision come to mutual agreement and tell your partner sincerely the problem or the reason as to for what reason you want to quit relation. Make her understand clearly and if she consents you can get out of love without hurting your partner.

Answered by K. Rajib , an ibibo Master, at 4:57 PM on September 06, 2008

First thing i will ask you that if you were to get out of love than why you loved?Why you gave false promises to your partner?But let me give your answer.You cannot go out of love without hurting each other.Than you can give less hurt to your partner in this way.You should give some problem to your problem that why you want to go out of love with her.In this way both can make a settlement to get out of love.

Answered by UWON . , an ibibo Master, at 2:16 PM on September 06, 2008

just make a meet of her with a guy better than u...

Answered by Shanu , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:42 PM on September 06, 2008

if you do not love her they how can you hurt her, try to make her understand it is one way, she will come out of it slowly but then better to reveal than let her think u love her at all in the first place

Answered by Sundari , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:14 AM on September 06, 2008