lst yr i mt w 3accidents:while i was in car and 1nce with my scooty,now whnever i driv i feel as smthng will hppn again,and strt thinking hw it will b,feel scar  

This state of fear psychosis (mental shock) is due to the accidents. It is known to all and even to you. But before going for elimination of your fear from mind, better you should also know the reasons for prevailing the fright.
Accident never comes with prior information. The people who are alert about accidents, they never become scare. In your case, probably, you were not alert earlier to any probable accident. You might not believe that accidents may happen to you also. But alas, it came. And it came so unwarranted that the incidents shatter your belief. That is why your mind is not accepting it as a normal happening.
My purpose of writing this extensive explanation is very simple. Once you know the realities, you will regain your confidence. It is only your confidences which will reconcile and soothe your mind. Time will take care. One thing again, you believe that accident may not occur because of your fault, there may be second party involved. There may be third party involved too. When you have to drive, you can not totally ignore this thing. Keep your eyes, ears, mind and wit alert while driving. Believe in God. He will be with you. But lastly, do not leave driving. Other wise you will not be able to win over the fear and the situation.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 11:09 AM on April 01, 2008

Hey Mani,it happens to many people..
accidents are ment to occur in life,but they are also ment to teach us to be careful..
The main thing is that u shldn't loose your CONFIDENCE,it is the key for success
Just drive carefully and check your speed for sometime and u'll notice the change yourself..
:-) ENJOY!!!!

Answered by Devashish at 2:07 PM on April 01, 2008

jus chuk it dear.....forget bout past...and hey.....meditation wrks gud fr ur problem.......and try listenin to ongs while drivin....(but in low volume as u've gotta hear the horn of other vehicles tooooooooo)

Answered by sweety da at 10:01 PM on April 01, 2008

dear dont worry.this is the game of life and play it by heart.if u down yor moral and think that acccident again happen,then psychologically it really happen.so dont think about the accident.when u on the drive, plz think that u are ultimate and u have all the strenght to do drive.but never be overconfident.when u on the drive concentrate between yor brain and the road.always obey the driving rules.and before starting the drive ,yor mind should be calm.so dear pray to god for yor best and safe driving.

Answered by rohit , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:13 PM on April 01, 2008

thats not abig deal u r just afraid as u met with 3 accidents be positive and drive safely everything will be alright

Answered by sunny , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:34 PM on April 01, 2008

Hi Mani,, just conc more on ur driving yaarr. I understand this as i m in same situation i met very erious accident god my arm operated and also a severe radial nerve injury. Even i can't drive properly now but still i always enjoy my ride and i cont to ride. Yes, you can surely avoid a two wheeler drive right now as it is not bit safe and you can go for driving 4 wheeler which is secure. Just cnc on same and nothing will hapen, believe in urselfff and i m sure you will too njoy ur ride. take careee..!!!!

Answered by sumit gandhi , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:15 PM on April 01, 2008

It is natural,and i can understand ur psycho now.But as long as you will fear for it,chances of more accident come to ur way.So dont be afraid and dont think of past.Just be normal while driving.Dont think that you r driving.

Answered by satyakam , an ibibo Master, at 5:20 PM on April 01, 2008

Let it be life or riding/driving... I believe in one thing. If we are confident to carry on with it, nothing negative will happen. It all depends on how confident you are :)
All the best in future while riding/driving...

Answered by Sridutt , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:13 PM on April 01, 2008

don't feel so scared rather you are a very brave girl as after metting with so many accidents than also you are trying for the driving of vehicles so be confident and have trust on god.

Answered by alok , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:22 PM on April 02, 2008

just imagine that u r not driving but enjoying

Answered by Munawar , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:25 PM on April 01, 2008