We should give them the liberty to choose and fix their goal and should support them by being friendly with them.

Answered by Narender Kum , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:09 PM on October 02, 2008

This is natural that all parents wish that their children become brilliant and bring fame and name to then with their great deeds. Those who are capable and also those who are not that much well to do to support their children to go for higher study study leave no stone unturned to help them with all great expectation that they would do well.

But in reality all the children of all the parents do not come out successful. Those who fail to show better result perhaps not committed to their duty and responsibility or they naturally lacked the knack for the subject matter they take up for study for the Nature has not equally vested brilliancy to all in all fields. Perhaps the children who failed were not well motivated or their assessment of themselves proved wrong.

This is the reason that all children of all parents do not do well.

Answered by K. Rajib G. , an ibibo Master, at 10:23 AM on October 02, 2008

You can ideally expect best result from your childeren but reality must remebered that to shine one needs god's gift of telant.

Answered by ashwin shah , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:45 AM on October 01, 2008

True, parents give their best support to their children and wish that they excel in all the fields. However, it is difficult for children to excel in all the fields. They will be successful in one or the other field, depending on their intelligence, aptitude, attitude and to some extent fate.

It is wrong for parents to have too many high expectations from their children. This will act like a burden on their shoulders, they will remain under tension and the result might be negative i.e. their performance might decline.

Answered by . Rashmi , an ibibo Advisor, at 6:53 PM on September 30, 2008

may be because ..those children needs more motivation to study..

Answered by Rohit , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:52 AM on September 26, 2008

children are also tiny human being and i beleive smtimes too much of expectations overburdens them. as all the five fingers of our hand are of diff. size in the same way all of ours capacity and ability are diff.

and the support u r calling do they really mean support. i mean it's more a kind of expectation andemotional push to do smthing. i beleive everyone has their own way and it's not that only brillliant people rules the world. may b an ordinary child of today becomes one of the best citizen of tommorow.
so 2 should not overexpect their child.

Answered by The Best , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:29 AM on September 23, 2008

That is the wish of the parents.Always. They try from level zero.They attend to their whims and wishes yet try to invoke good examples in them.But, children do hate too much interruption from the parents.Once they become adolescent they feel that the parents are making unnecessary interventions.They take friends of their own choice.When the parents' experience show the friend/s otherwise the children revolt.They like to go their own way.
That is the attitude in the field of education,too.You can take a horse to the pond, but you cannot force him to drink.Their caliber is limited anmd they will like to roam their own dream world.Education,knowledge or intelligence do not appear in their mind.So they fail to prove worth their salt.

Answered by Vijay Kayal , an ibibo Master, at 6:49 PM on September 22, 2008

Well Mr. Ramcharan you have asked a nice question about the creativity and intelligence of children .You have asked that "All parents want that their children become brilliant in all fields. Accordingly they give all supports to children. But why not all children show better result" well ramcharan ji you and everyone know that all the five fingers of human hands are not equal with each other then how it would be happen that every children will equal with each other in study and so and so...it good to be except some good thing from the children but its very bad to except much from their children who are not much smarter than others and who are backward in studies etc....
now a days there is no competition in between students in study but there is a big competition or you can tell a big war among all the parents that their children will secure good marks in exams etc....modern parents are putting much more pressure on their children due to this some children are afraid in the name of study even they are every day they inventing many formulas not to go to schools also.so its not advisable for those parents who are putting much study pressure on their children and expect much things from their children.
Thank You.

Answered by Debasis , an ibibo Master, at 4:22 PM on September 22, 2008

In this world not all children are intelligent in studies.Some children are good at studies while some children are not good at studies while that children are good at some other activities.So i will suggest that parents should expect about their children in their particular activities only in which they are expect.

Answered by UWON . , an ibibo Master, at 3:21 PM on September 22, 2008