"I am guilt ridden as once I had sort of sex with a guy and now getting marrid to a gentleman. Would not it be a chting to my husband"-askd my frnd. Pls advise.  

hi chaitali if one could turn back the clock life would have a different meaning ......if there is no love lost for the former individual ......go ahead in life

Answered by coolted at 12:14 AM on February 17, 2008

NEED NOT TO B WORRY. NOW AFTER MARRIAGE U SHOULD BE LOYAL TO YR HUBBY.

Answered by fazal at 12:13 AM on February 17, 2008

no chiting,Dear friend that was yourpast life and now you have entered in new lifeof era. So no fear enjoy your life without any gilt. Rember never, never, never share this thing to your husband.

Answered by Daljit Singh at 12:05 AM on February 17, 2008

not a cheatting...... you did only the situation allwed you to do so........... but after marriage you should properly maintain a neat lady and love your husband as you can

Answered by jc b at 12:03 AM on February 17, 2008

no its not a chiting...its not good but thats ur past n u r guit for that....now u r getting marriege n i think u respect this new relation n i say my dearrespect always ur relation n live happy goodluck n god bless u ...jo ho gaya usse bhul jao nahi to maintly tum pareshaan rahogii...

Answered by pratik at 12:01 AM on February 17, 2008

HEY MY DEAR FRIEND IT WAS YOUR PAST FORGET ABOUT THAT AND START A NEW LIFE WITH YOUR PARTNER BUT MAKE SURE AFTER MARRIAGE YOU DONT REPEAT THIS AS IT HAPPENS IN LIFE NO NEED TO WORRY HAVE A NICETIME NO GUITL FEELINGS BE LOYAL NOW

Answered by santosh at 11:58 PM on February 16, 2008

no....friend.its not a cheating...

Answered by shabeer vp at 11:48 PM on February 16, 2008

it is your mental dillema.the best course of action for you would be to forget the episode for good. your post marriage relationship with your husband should be more important.it is a mental requirement of a person to expect exclusive love,care and attention from life partner. past may have some impact in your mind as memories cannot be erased for ever.

Answered by JYOTI at 11:44 PM on February 16, 2008

Hi Chaitali first of all i want you to be my friend please. I want to say that a sort of sex with a guy was definitely a mistake but you cannot keep it with you to the whole life. so go ahead.

Answered by Deepam at 11:44 PM on February 16, 2008

hi, i think if u love ur husband by heart after your marriage, than there is no need to feel guilty, bcz. it is possibility of any affair before marriage, but not in phisical sense, but now after marriage u hv to forget everything & live ur life wid love.

Answered by kuldeep at 11:37 PM on February 16, 2008