"I am guilt ridden as once I had sort of sex with a guy and now getting marrid to a gentleman. Would not it be a chting to my husband"-askd my frnd. Pls advise.  

IN MY THINK OF VIEW MAY BE UR HUSBAND ALSO HAVING AFFAIR DONT BE SERIOUS ABOUT UR PROBLEM NOTHING WILL HAPPEN THATS UR MISTAKE

Answered by mohd siraj at 7:54 PM on February 16, 2008

Dear, love is supposed to be worship.It is wrong and dirty ,when it is not taken in right perspective.Offer love to the new man in your life.he will be a lucky man.God will bestow his blessing to you.you always pure when you are in love.SANJAY

Answered by sanjay at 7:48 PM on February 16, 2008

listn its nt cheating at all do u knw wht all he did before getting married to u n above all its past n was personal so chill n enjoy ur life

Answered by rohini at 7:44 PM on February 16, 2008

SEE CHAITALI IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT NOR YOUR X FRIEND IT WAS THAT TIME YOU MET & HAVE FAULT , SO DON,T TELL YOUR FIENCY BUT YOU CAN SHARE TO GOD & CONFESS IT THAT U HAVE DONE THE WRONG AND MAKE MY MISTAKE IGNORE , AND IF U REALY WANT MORE SUGESTION CONTACT ME BECAUSE IAM ALSO A MARRIED MAN(09755039696)

Answered by RAJ KUMAR at 7:30 PM on February 16, 2008

past is past think about future.

Answered by shiva ram at 7:24 PM on February 16, 2008

this is cheating to your husband but if u asked your husband he will hate u ,u think as no happened to u forget for ever otherwise u spoil your life if your husband is senstive then what u will do.

Answered by bansi at 7:22 PM on February 16, 2008

No g sometimes we make mistake but it doesnot mean that we must mourn over that for the rest of our life. If you have made a mistake and you feel that you have made mistake then its fine. Bhagwan se sorry mang lo.aur waise bhi kya pata aapke hone wale husband ne bhi kabh kisi ke saath sex kia ho.kya pata unhone bhi yeh galti li ho.so feel calm and tension free. galti hogai toh hogai ab kasam kha lo ke dubara mat krna theek hi

Answered by Nitin at 7:17 PM on February 16, 2008

no advise 4 this

Answered by shelly baby at 7:09 PM on February 16, 2008

hey forget whatever happend in past think about future coz future is in your hand not past

Answered by arun singh at 7:08 PM on February 16, 2008

dnt wrry
it will nt b chitting
if he loves u thn he will acept tht
he may also ad a sex in life with any one else

Answered by rajesh jain at 7:07 PM on February 16, 2008